If I usually tell more general stories, today I want to tell about my insights in the work. Last week I conducted an audit of the wardrobe for a girl with a very complex type of appearance. It was mixed opposite styles - classic with naive, face lines - straight and clear with fragile, coloring - coolness with clean spring. Her image was at the same time complex and very interesting task, I even said about it and thanked that she turned to me. I tried to express its inconsistency and complexity of the character in draperies, while leaving a clear form, and to express the children's viability with the help of light bright and at the same time calm shades. A few hours after the meeting with the presentation of the image for L. She wrote to me that he felt what I recommended to her, and agreed that this really superbly emphasizes her nature - a very air and easy couple with clarity, which is its strength.
So, disassembled the wardrobe, we found that if she was intuitively understood that it was worth choosing, then the accessories always tried to drag themselves. He put on heavy shoes, massive decorations, chose large rims for glasses, the word, did everything to visually add their weight. Yes, now it's all fashionable to combine with lighter outages, and nevertheless such eclectics is suitable for everyone. L. From those women who are shown exclusively elegant, elegant outfits, the same decorations, everything should be selected with a great taste.
Since my work includes not only external changes, but also psycho-emotional, I asked her the question - what she achieves, having taking themselves with accessories. The answer was rather obvious from the side and completely discovery for L. She said: "I have always been very spontaneous, I could not sit on the spot, could break in the middle of the night in an adventurous journey, and now I have a family - a husband, daughter, I can't afford To myself. So I try to keep "on earth", do not fly away. And now I suddenly realized that my constant fatigue was due to the fact that I did not allow myself the immediacy, adventures in which, in general, and the child can be injured. "
So, disassembled the wardrobe, we were able to solve the question of total fatigue. The main thing in this is on time and exactly a given question. Why do you need this? What need do you satisfy?
So what is the insight?
Listening to myself and following your body, appearance, with your needs - just so you can create a resource condition for work, for life as a whole. And clothing in this is a great tool, it, like a lactium paper, shows where and in which direction there is a skew.
Listen to yourself, your intuition does not lie.
By the way, my own request in the selection of practically any outfits sounded differently - to feel easy to be easier. Naturally, in sensations. But trying to wear light flowing dresses and heels, I received the opposite effect. And only having studied this topic and taking yourself, starting to choose more tangible fabrics, shoes, clothing styles, the right size of jewelry, I felt really light, fluttering and very thin!
Karina Efimova, an expert on the creation of an authentic female wardrobe