Human nature, character can be studied by millions of different ways: according to the features of the face, habits, vote, body structure and gait, imagine or professional preference.
And also about character features can tell dreams.
One of them recently sent a young woman: "I'm in the apartment. I know for sure that my mother should come here soon. I am not a child, I'm about my 25. I wake up from a strange sound and go to watch what is happening. I look into the room on the monitors of the cameras and see that several teenagers are trying to hack the door. Strange, because the door outside looks like the most common, but the repair in the apartment is good. But they can not know about it. I come to the door and look into the keyhole. The key disappears, a young man's eye looks into the keyhole, and a fuss begins behind the door - teens run to the elevator. I threatened them that now someone comes and take them. Girl and one young guy return to the door and pushing her inside. It turns out that the door is unforeptant. I'm trying to close it, but for some reason the latch lengths are missing. I understand that all this time in fact the door was open. Teens run away in the end. On the threshold is familiar, I let him. He knows about what happened. I do not know whether to believe him: for some reason, there is a suspicion that he brought it on my apartment. "
Sleep tells his owner of an experienced alarm, the invasion fear into its personal space. In general, the expectation of the mother in the apartment is a symbol. Imagine how a child is waiting for mom. When she comes, he will feel the total relaxation, security, care. The lack of mother in a child is alarming and anxiety. Although the dream writes that she is not small in a dream, but the symbol is powerful. Reliability and maternal concern are those sensations that will or will not accompany us all your life. Will, if in childhood, we will completely know the complete security and acceptance of your mother. And they will not, if this, for various reasons, did not happen.
Now about further symbols: teenagers are trying to climb the apartment, even in the end pushing the door, but they do not pass further. Probably our heroine is afraid of such an uncontrolled circulation. The dream is not a nightmare, even there is no direct threat. Rather, he is about how she carefully protects any of its borders, and also does not allow themselves to open (the symbol is an unlocked door that she is trying to close on a junk).
At the end of sleep, a familiar appears to whom she does not trust, which increases the feeling of anxiety from sleep. It is important to say that it is an alarm. The difference between her from fear, present and animal, that anxiety is not free. Fear we feel when there is a direct danger of something. But anxiety, that is, the messenger fear, we feel when there is no real danger, but there is an expectation of a threat, thoughts about a possible threat.
The smaller the person is aware of the source of his real fear, the more often he feels alarm.
The dream of our heroine tells how she suspects, is afraid of any attack, but in fact it does not happen, because it does not open and sits in his symbolic apartment. It does not go beyond the usual framework and strives for an absolutely comfortable environment.
Being a reliable, protected environment is definitely important. But it is also important to try yourself, find out, experiment, learn to resist, withstand confrontation. Our heroine writes that she is 25, and therefore, it's time to try himself, go out for its own framework and restrictions. Most young people at this age show their ambitions, their career aspirations, are active in finding a partner in life.
Perhaps the dream hints the heroine that it is much reinsured where it is irrelevant. It's time to start acting and risking.
And what dreams of you?
Maria Dyachkova, PSYCHOLOGIST, Family therapist and leading trainings of personal growth Training center Marika Khazin