The worst thing is that our body "speaks" in addition to our will - with a head giving out our innermost thoughts and the most secret desires. Our almost imperceptible gestures and movements are the signals programmed by nature that we send unconsciously. The surrounding perceive and decrypt them, too at the subconscious level. These are just those sudden insights, which sometimes say "intuition", "love at first sight", "inexplicable rejection", etc. That is why special services are always carefully working on the decoding of the body of the body, attracting the best specialists. When preparing "Agents 007", they are taught not only to capture, but also aimediently directed bodily signals to the specified object. Here we would be such knowledge yes on the personal front! So, what are the developments in the field of body language provided us with psychologists and sexologists?
Decipher. You often see the person you are interested in or even regularly communicate with it - for example, at work. You would like more close acquaintances, but do not understand how he or she applies to you. Here you are in indecision: Is it worth doing the first step? Are there any close relationships? What if you don't like him (she), but he communicates with you exclusively from politeness? Alas, very often the first step does not do anything - just from fear to be rejected. Taking advantage of our crib, you can understand whether you are pretty to your object, even if you still have not told each other any words.
Female signals. So, you have chances if at the sight of you lady ...
It is wrapped. In this conditional concept, many small actions may include - such as wretched clothing, correction hairstyles, shaving the non-existent dust. If, enjoying you, the woman begins to actively touch his hair (for example, heats the curl on the finger) - your chances are rising. Involuntary hair touch - a sign of rather strong attraction.
"Warts" you. Naturally, it can occur only if you are at least familiar. Gestures "Guards" or "owners" are programmed into DNA of each woman and initially addressed to the offspring. Naturally, in his life, a woman applies them not only to the child, but also to those who are really not sensible. If the lady corrects you the tie, says the scarf, wipes the jacket or smoothes your hair - rejoice! Performing ritual of the proprietary gestures, it as it would marry you, like its territory, thus thinking about the rivals.
Tries to mouth. In any way - the tip of the finger, licking the lips or a shelter of the tip of the pencil. All these are faithful signals that her interest in you is not just friendly.
Slightly open lips. Solid physiology! During the intimate proximity of the lips, thanks to the tide of them, they become more fully. And the presence of an object of interest automatically launches in the body of a woman the same mechanism. Result: At the sight of you, her lips are involuntarily and barely noticeably open.
Stroking the shoulders. If stroking is slow and sensual, it is nothing but its unconscious desire to draw your attention to your chest. Of course, this can only be in the event that you are interested in it as a potential partner.
Covered by a blush. This is not exactly what shame paint. Just when there is an object of increased interest, the body temperature of a woman rises. Visually this can be expressed in the appearance of a brush or in small droplets of sweat (type of Spains) on the face. Consider: if so, this woman is almost yours.
Male signals. If at the sight of you he ...
Models torso. This wisdom wording means just that the man "builds" the position of his body towards you in a certain way. If you are not indifferent to him in a sexy plan, he unfolds a torso in your direction and demonstrates him. In other words, if his dream - you, his pelvis and chest will be unfolded to you, even if his eyes are facing the other side. Also, subconsciously trying to seem more attractive, the man pulls the belly and protrudes the chest.
Glides to look. If, during a conversation, the look repeatedly slides from your eyes down to the mouth and returns to the eyes again - this is a signal of a very strong attraction.
Smiles, tilting his head. So a man subconsciously demonstrates his most direct, vulnerable side, waiting for you a smile of approval. This gesture can be regarded as a visual question: Do I like you? Are you ready to love me?
Nods. Movie itself does not have sexual subtext. Question in quantity. If a man nods to every word, it happens to him unconsciously. And suggests that the question of your attractiveness he has already decided for himself positively. So nods.
Trying to touch you. Clean the hair strand with your eyes. When conversation, it would be unstable covers your palm of yours. Opening the door in front of you, takes you over the arm above the elbow or gets off by the shoulders ... The use of any preposition to touch, is a signal that a man wants to go to closest relationships.
Common signals for both sexes expressing sympathy. Expansion of pupils. If in itself a gaze in some cases can mean interest in you as a person in general, then this sign is one hundred percent. If, when you look at you, the pupils of your vezavi are expanding, the interlocutor is not indifferent. The expansion of pupils is an involuntary reaction coming from the cortex of the brain.
Mitigation feathers. Not in vain has long been noticed that lovers are good. When we see the one who we like, the traits of our face are involuntarily softened, becoming more attractive. The sharp lines disappear, and the eyes are smiling. Also a clear sign of attraction is a smile contained. Probably, you ourselves noticed: at the form of an object of sympathy, our mouth itself is stretched to ears.
Cooling. If the interlocutor sensibly reacts to the change in the expression of your face and your movements through a subconscious imitation, it says that he or she really wants you like. A man experiencing sympathy, instinctively tries to "catch a wave" of his object and tune in to her. That is, if you at this point for some reason are sad or serious, a person configured to you will not loudly laugh, to ride jokes or try to download you with some kind of problems.
Control. So-called bodily barriers - a sign of lack of sympathy and unwillingness to communicate. Catching such signals from others, better leave them alone - they are not up to you. And control yourself: Do not give out your personal sentiment without need.
Takes a look. If the increasing intensity of the views indicates to the attraction, then its absence also clearly indicates weak visual contact. Simply put, a deliberate assignment to your object of sight to the side is eloquent than any unpleasant confession.
Holds something at the chest level. If, during a conversation with you, your vesati holds between you any item (for example, a glass, telephone, cigarette, book), know, it is subconsciously erected obstacles. This subject is designed to protect him from communicating with you. Well, do not insist ...
Foot leg with quick swaying one foot - Sign of impatience and irritation.
Hand crossed on her chest - The most famous and powerful of bodily barriers. Although for shy people, he can serve as a sign of embarrassment or uncertainty.