A modern girl is distinguished by independence and determination, so it often wonders - is it possible to take the first step? What will the man think? Suddenly he read the frivolous.
As sexologists believe, in some cases the initiative from a woman is even necessary. It all depends on the specific situation and the nature of the man, the attention of which you provide. Or just going to provide.
Act unobtrum
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For a girl who is used to acting is not a problem to approach or call you like a man: it always wants the desired. In modern realities, such women are becoming more and more, and the whole of Emancipation. However, the number of girls is more modest, accustomed to the patriarchal defendant in society, who constantly said that the girl should conquer the girl, everything is still enough. What do they do?
Of course, men by nature are leaders. But this does not cancel the fact that they like initiative ladies. In some sense, this is a game, inciting passion. A man who is not used to such behavior from the girl can be seriously interested, and then will do everything to get this girl. Therefore, there is nothing galloping in to have the marks of attention to the man you are interested in. Especially if you see that sympathy is mutual.
It happens that a man due to certain circumstances, for example, a different social or material status, does not see a partner in a woman. This is where your time comes: show that you are interested in it. Perhaps he just did not notice you before, and it turns out that you are very interesting for him.
But there are cases when women scare men with excessive activity - a man is simply afraid of her, and all romance disappears.
Why not "see" to the object of adoration
Surely in school you or your friends faced situations when you liked the boy, but he absolutely did not pay attention to you, and so you decided to write it. This behavior is characteristic of very young girls who still do not understand the relationship at all. You write everything as it is straightforward. Naturally, the reaction of a very young man will be predictable. He will just run away. In any case, you need to act progressively.
Why this way does not work
Imagine you live yourself calmly, and suddenly some man is announced, who declares that it cannot live without you, and therefore it urgently needs to marry you. You have shock. The same thing happens with the man you declare about your feelings straight. A man simply does not know how to react to it, and most likely will run away.
Do not forget that the man is used to seek her. If you hint to him, the hunter will wake up in it, who will want to get you, but if everything is right - his interest in you will disappear. It is not known that he can think about you if you are too assertive.
Man used to seek goals
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How to proceed
To take the first step, you need to be absolutely confident in yourself and my decision. If you are accustomed to assume that a woman should not show activity that it is generally humiliating, even do not try to start. In this case, absolute confidence is important. You will simply feel clamped and you can not convey your thought clearly.
Therefore, if you do not feel confidence, carefully prepare morally.
What to do if I liked the stranger
As we have said, all men are different, someone like the initiative from women, and someone tolerate can not have any activity. Start with small. "Play" through the eyes. Smile, but do it ease to be the most natural possible. If this is your colleague, every day welcome it.
When a man goes interest on his part, you can start the main "attack."
If the sympathy is mutual, you may not doubt - you will succeed
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What to do with a familiar man?
If you are in constant contact, it will be easier here. However, in this situation, do not hurry to exercise stormy emotions. Start with light flirting to "prepare the soil". Next, follow its reaction. If he answers the flirting, keep up the good work. But do not write. Your goal is to understand that he is interested in you, and then the man itself has to start acting.
Show your initiative or not - Your right. The main thing in this matter is not only to achieve attention of your potential partner, but also to maintain a reputation.