We suggest familiarizing yourself with such "spicy" questions that are better to avoid in conversation.
Communication with a new acquaintance or friend implies the clarification of the circumstances of the lifestyle of each other, nevertheless there are certain limitations associated with personal space.
Of course, it is impossible to get around some moments, but it is still important to learn how to understand where the boundaries of another person begins.
Respect the personal boundaries of others.
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# 1 And how much do you earn?
If you are not an employer, such a question is extremely inappropriate in a personal conversation. No one is obliged to report to your salary. Probably the only situation when such a question is, if you are going to marry a man and it is logical that you are worried about the budget of the future common family.
There are people who tell about themselves absolutely everyone and believe that they have to do so and others, but you are, you don't need to think that as soon as you share information about your income with friends, they will immediately tell it about themselves. In general, the theme of the money is very scrupulous, try to avoid it, so as not to be ill-tactless.
# 2 pregnant, or what?
The question is mildly, unpleasant. There are several reasons why the question of pregnancy may adversely affect your communication with a person.
The reason is the first: a woman is fighting for many years with overweight, probably she herself is very much worried about this, and here you are. Why injury a person even stronger?
The second reason: after taking some drugs to stimulate the operation of the ovaries, bloating may be observed, therefore, asking the question of pregnancy, you thus attract attention to its problems.
And the last reason - a woman can really be pregnant, and you only attract the attention of others to your question, although she herself may not have planned to announce it.
Even his man undesirable to ask tactless questions.
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# 3 when married?
After 30 years, a person has time to get married / marry and divorce. Divorce experience is never enjoyable, so questions on this topic can be depressed even more.
You can't know for sure why a person does not marry. Perhaps it refers to certain minorities, which cannot be officially registered yet.
Many simply cannot find a soul mate, and your question will once again remind you of failures on the love front.
# 4 Why not children yet?
The question is from the same "opera" as marriage. Understand what to give birth or not give birth to a child - the case of everyone, your advice, instructions and other dumbs here are simply inappropriate.
In addition, a person may like to have a child, but it does not work for individual causes. In any case, when you want to tell about it, tell and without your requests.
# 5 believe in God?
Each person is free to regulate its religious affiliation and establish or not to establish relationships with God. He does not need your participation only if at will. Most dislikes when they invade their inner world and start digging there. A person can answer you negatively, but this does not speak at all about him, as an individual, devoid of spirituality.
# 6 And how much is your apartment / car / cottage?
Again, the "money" question. If a person decided to spend money, he will spend them, despite the opinion of others. Think that will change this information in your life? We are confident absolutely nothing.
If you are interested in personal motives, let's say you want to buy the same car, stop me to person. Just call the car dealership and find out there.
No one is obliged to report to you.
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# 7 How many lovers did you have?
It will be unpleasant to hear even your lover, what's there. If you are interested in the history of venereal diseases of the partner, then the question of the number of genital ties is definitely not suitable. It is better to go checked together: it will be less hurt.
It is possible that even your close friend or girlfriend, responding to such a question, will disperse with you in opinion, and the dispute will begin on how many lovers "must" have a girl or a guy. You just quarrel with a friend, but do not come to the general opinion.