The child's upbringing is not only in the rules that you install inside the family, and constantly participating in the child's life. Sometimes parents do not want to take the fact that their communication between themselves and with other adults is perfectly absorbed by the faster psyche. Your baby should not grow with the thought that the world is configured against him, and such an impression may be formed if the parents themselves are in a constant negative. So what topics in the presence of a child should be limited or completely excluded? Let's figure it out.
Hard criticism of other people
There is no man who would not land is normal. At the same time, many of us love to give a sharp and sometimes unfair assessment of other people's actions. Explaining to the child, that, let's say that the man turns on a red light almost "shame of all mankind," you teach a child to share the world on black and white. If you want to tell the child, how to act in one situation or another, try to do this without evaluation judgments to another, especially a person unfamiliar to you.
Discussion of teachers
Probably, every parent is no no, but complained about the school teacher. Yes, the teacher can not always find a common language with the child and you are also not obliged to admire the teacher. And it is still important to remember that the performance of your child depends on this person, in addition, your negative in the direction of the teacher will provide a child with a baby "bear service": you will give an opportunity to fully ignore the words and requests of the teacher, thereby unwittingly aggravate the conflict. Moreover, this applies not only to school teachers, but also other adults who interact with your child anyway.
Do not criticize relatives
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Less politician
It is difficult to stay from the comment, passing by the TV, where there is another political talk show. The child in principle is not easy to give this topic, especially if we are talking about younger students, all that you express out loud is picked up by the child and is broadcast in the places inappropriate for this topic. Be careful.
Taboo on criticism of relatives
You can hate my husband's mother or your partner is categorically against your grandmother in your own home, but for your children are loved and native people. Your criticism and negative in their direction is absolutely not clear to children, and misunderstanding leads to anxiety. Especially often problems arise between mother and father, while each of the parties is trying to "lift" the child to his side. Remember that nothing, except for confusion, which is then replaced by the anger on both of both, will not lead your actions.
Cataclysm
In the world, events occur every year that a person is not able to control what is just worth a recent pandemic. Of course, the child may have questions why familiar life has changed so sharply or as well as teachers in school or in a circle tensely say, your task is to explain a difficult question on a child affordable, without the detention of the details and probable outcome. Children are more susceptible to bad news and the rapid psyche may simply not withstand.