We all liked to listen to a fairy tale about Cinderella, in which a beautiful prince fell in love with first glance. "This is love!" - We thought, looking at the "Three meters above the sky" type films. But there were those who stubbornly argued that it was impossible to love a person at first glance - and, finally, scientists have proven that they were right. He studied the latest studies proving it.
How do we imagine love
"When the time comes, a man will appear in your life, who seemed to see what he was looking for him all his life," all the coaches say so they say, motivating girls to engage in their lives, while fate will not be a lost handsome man and the potentially perfect father of her children to The coast of her sea. Argued with the fact that your own life and own development should stand for you in the first place, we will not. But with the fact that the top is destined when you see a man suitable for you, we will not agree. Even if you think about logically, the probability of matching the characteristics of a man with your criteria of an ideal man is the higher, the more often you meet a wide variety of men. So sit in the castle, as Rapunzel did it, do not exactly - choose people! And now we turn to the most interesting - research.
Do not regret the loneliness, look for a man ourselves
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Scientists reacted to love at first glance skeptical
In a series of research, sex and his colleagues tracked the memories of people about the different experience of relationships during the entire period of their relationships, both short-term and long-term. For example, the first kiss, first sex and so on. It turned out that the power of the senses of people in relation to their partner was the same for both short-term and long-term relationships. Only later, the researchers saw the differences between the continued relations and relationships, which ended up. But what about love at first glance? What Kind Of Love Is Love At First Sight Study? An Empirical Investigation ", published in the scientific journal" Personal Relatoinships "showed that many people believe that they experienced this feeling. But in fact, the study has proven that this feeling of "love" is actually just a sense of strong physical attraction - more similar to lust. And many people who speak about "love at first sight" to their current partner, simply project their current feelings on their first meetings with this person.
Lovers confused passion with a deep feeling
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How do you like these results? Do you believe in love at first sight despite science? Write your opinion in the comments below and tell what other myths we need to dispel.