Harmonious relationship cannot be built without work on them on both sides, but when one of the partners suffers from mental disorder, it becomes as difficult as possible to create a comfortable atmosphere. Moreover, to recognize psychopath often is not so simple - a person is usually extremely charming and does not cause suspicion until you enter with him in close contact. And yet, how to distinguish a difficult character from the real disorder? We decided to figure out.
He puts himself above you
This psychopath will not tolerate that the partner in something surpassed himself. You will always hear phrases like: "You can't do anything," "Who would be without me," and so on. All this is done with one goal - to suppress your will, take control of your emotions and introduce you into dependence. You yourself will not notice how you begin to please an authoritarian psychopath.
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You are checked by indifference
The only thing, and that dubious, plus relations with a psychopath, can be called unpredictability in relationships: Today he swars in eternal love and you feel like in a fairy tale, however, the next day you are not like - psychopath persistently ignores you, and you do not understand What happened. Worse, indifference often develops into aggression. Such emotional swings pretty seriously undermine the psyche.
He never recognizes his guilt
As we said, the power over the Painner is important for a psychopath, and to maintain the authority, he was not pleasing to recognize guilt in anywhere. Moreover, if your second half is really guilty, you should still blame you - because you are a priori to blame for all problems in relationships. Be careful to such moments, they should alert you.
He manipulates a good attitude
At the very beginning of relations, the partner will perform all your whims, give gifts and delight you for any reason. However, do not hurry to rejoice - as soon as your relationships become a little closer or you come into marriage, the psychopath will be full. The main goal of his attempts to be improved - to make you lose vigilance, and then make it completely obey, when it will be too late to tear the relationship.
It will change
A person who is not familiar with the attachment and deep feelings quickly cools and begins to look for a new "sacrifice" to feed emotions. As statistics show, more than half of all change occur in relations, where one of the partners is a psychopath. As soon as he is "playing", the fleeting novel will come to no, but he will immediately go to search for new "impressions."