As a dream, heat and food intake, one more basic need for man is sex. Even if you do not plan to start a child, it does not mean that you need to protect yourself from sex contacts, because its essence has long ceased to be directed exclusively for reproduction.
Sex sooner or later happens in the life of everyone, the first experience is usually remembered for life, as well as the graduation. Very often, this experience brings more frustration than satisfaction. We will give some advice to those who are just going to start their "sexy way", so you can avoid many disappointments.
It is important to be ready and physically, and psychologically
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What you need to know
Most young people have no idea when you can enter into sex without harm to health and psyche. In our society there is an opinion that the perfect age for the first sex is 18-25 years old - the most reproductive peak.
However, due to the mass culture, which in the past few decades is increasingly erases the boundaries between the permissiveness and traditional implications, the age of partners who enter into intimate relationships significantly decreased: now even from high school students you can hear how many partners she changed over the past six months. As you can see, it is difficult to call the exact number.
In order for the first time the smallest difficulties, it is important to be ready for it physiologically and, most importantly, is psychologically. For a young man, and especially for a girl, this experience is decisive: it depends on him how the sex life of a person for the next 5-10 years will be.
Moral tuning
Young people are important to configure morally, it is not necessary to think that sex is running with obstacles, you do not need anyone to prove anything, you just get pleasure from each other.
If you are very nervous, try to create a cozy atmosphere: To do this, make a dinner for your second half, ventilate the apartment, buy wine, muffle the light. You can include relaxing music.
Pre-replace bed linen, it is desirable that it is beautiful. Personal hygiene is also important, so do not forget to take a shower immediately before the process itself.
The age of entering intimate relationship is increasingly decreasing
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Probably the most important thing is even more important than the mood - reliable protection. Many have heard of reality about girls who got pregnant in high school, and now they have to cope with the consequences of their rampant deeds.
In order not to become parents at an early age, not at wishes, and indeed, not to be in line with the reception to the venereologist, it is important to be protected. The easiest solution will be condoms. But take care of this in advance so that at the last moment it is not to run to the pharmacy, violating the entire intimate atmosphere. Important moment: buy condoms preferably in a pharmacy, and not in the store, since pharmacy products are checked carefully.
Create a romantic atmosphere
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What a position to choose
Do not hope for a long sexual intercourse, it is unlikely that this will happen, especially if not only for you, but also for your partner this sexual contact is the first. You can experiment a little later, but for now it is worth limking to the classic, missionary pose to avoid serious injuries.