You dreamed about him for a long time, and now he appeared - your prince and future husband. He is your hero, and you want to show that he made the right choice. And here you wave a favorite female rake - a husband to build a pedestal and make the center of the universe. And when a child appears, everything is only aggravated. Of course, the first year of motherhood is not for nervous. Then colic, then teeth, then anxiety ... There are no strength, stress stress, lack of sex, quarrels and conflicts, charges and resentment ... But is it the root cause of your state "do not come to kill"?
Yes, fatigue makes itself felt, but most of all the woman suffers from dissatisfaction of its needs for communication and implementation. She notes that the husband pays less attention and does not understand what is happening, continuing to drag and so clean floors. Will help? Not. And about what will help, read below.
The first step towards a happy life
Arrange priorities. I love the phrase very much that the family is the center of the Universe, but not her border. You can be mired in cleaning and ironing, once a month go to the manicure and constantly transfer depilation, but what is this sense? What will you achieve this? What does a husband look at the secretary with a taut body and a mess at home? Or on a business partner who does not know what the iron looks like? No one says that everything needs to be thrown and go to the gym. Just take a sheet of paper and write what you want. Clean home, delicious dinner, beautiful body, educated child, personal growth? Arrange priorities with your desires and balancing. You do not swing one hand in the gym, right? So do not do so with your life - pump all its spheres.
Family - Center of the Universe, but not her border. Do not forget about your own holiday and development
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Steps 2 and 3
If you are mom and wife, then it is beautiful. But you have the right to our own interests. Go with friends to the cinema, at the exhibition, in the spa. Get the fine tradition - the day of love for yourself. Once every two weeks leave a child on dad, grandmother or nanny and waste time only on yourself. It can be a walk in the park, lunch in your favorite restaurant, meeting with friends, shopping or watching the series in silence and loneliness. Do what you love what you want and what you need. Listen to yourself, protect your right to rest and Total Relax. Children do not need an ideal mother - they need a happy. And happy mom is a rested mother. Yes, and the husband will be only glad if you come back from the image of Four to the image of a beloved balanced woman.
Step 4.
Agree, my husband is not interested to listen to gossip from the playground about diapers. Yes, it's no secret that the woman is making a circle of interest in the decree, but is it to degrade? You can always find a deal to the soul to do it at home. Do you always like to create interiors? Start developing in this area, and it is likely that the decree will end, you will not return to the reports, but you will do your favorite thing. Internal satisfaction is provided, and the husband's interest will only grow. It's one thing - to love your child's mother when she constantly talks about diapers, and quite another - admire the beloved woman and its development. Yes, and you, girls, will begin to feel completely different.
Conversations with a child about success and correctly confirm the lifestyle. Confirm your own example
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Step 5.
If you want your children in the future are successful, implemented and happy, then show them on your own example. If you yourself work for a penny, and after work, lying on the sofa, then your conversations that the child needs to succeed and lead a healthy lifestyle will be the usual shaking of the air. Become to whom the child will be equal.
Total 5 steps, but they will give their result almost immediately. Try and make sure this is your own experience.