Despite the fact that the phenomenon of Child-Free is already perceived by society as the usual, most women are still counting sooner or later to become mothers. Therefore, it is extremely important to choose a satellite of life, which in the future will successfully cope with the role of the Father, and will not fall asleep all the concerns for a young mammy.
It is unlikely that you can expect tangible help from a person who neglects all the domestic affairs, considering them exclusively female responsibility. But the willingness to replace the crane going to fix the shelf and take the garbage - a very good sign.
A husband who knows how to take responsibility, not grazing before failures, much faster will figure out with the wisdom of changing diapers and the toddle of the baby than the one with the slightest deviation from the planned plan begins to panic.
Cheerful temper will also help become a good father: all whims of the child will easily be relieved by a tick, a funny fabric and so on.
Well, if the beloved is not an egoist and knows how to take care of others: for example, about his spouse, parents, brothers and sisters. But at the same time, a man needs to be able to say that a close person is wrong, otherwise the child will have a rope in the future.
If you think your husband or groom is responsible - this is a good sign. So you can not worry, trusting him with some kind of child care.
Perhaps the most important thing is the love between the spouses and the desire of the men to become a father. If this is not, then no crashness and ability to let jokes will not help become an ideal father.