She stood in a large window, in the empty corridor of the maternity branch, where a good-natured nurse left it for a while, went to clarify which chamber to determine it ...
The floor was immersed in silence and emptiness. This night, no one, besides her and two more women, it seems not going. As an inexperienced twenty-year-old girl, she listened to his feelings with interest, distracted by the muffled sounds that came from the chambers.
What an unusual night ... outside the frost window about forty degrees. Stars are bright such that covered the dazzling white snow close to the tundra. But it was especially impressed and made forgot for a moment about where she and why she is here, the unusual beauty and brightness of the Northern Lights, having slept with juicy colors and immediately spread with colored streams on a dark sky.
For six months already, as she lived in the distant North city, far from Moscow. But the northern lights have not yet seen. And then such a miracle is bottled throughout the sky, overflowing with red, yellow, greenish and silver paints. It seemed that the Universe itself decided to give this extraordinary night solemnity and significance.
In a different way, it could not: today will come a moment when it reaches one of the most important steps of its development - the birth of his first son ...
Half a year ago she was not afraid to leave in Vorkuta with her husband, who only started his military career, being in the third month of pregnancy, leaving a cozy Moscow apartment, girlfriends, his violin and piano, putting a musical career jerking ... In early August, Tundra met her ... Snowfall , Making a straightened train to the window of the train ...
Then began searching for work, meetings and ... failures. Since, on a direct question: "Is she waiting for a child?" He followed a direct and clear answer: "Yes ... and quite soon." After several failures, fate, represented by the Miloid Head of the kindergarten, who was in elegant age, cleared her. She left her daughter to Moscow, while at the same time of pregnancy.
The decision to be where her husband, work, and not wait a few more month when a child is born, sitting at home and enjoying the first pregnancy, he was just like, without long hesitation. But who might think that in her prosperous, as the TV claimed, the country will have to live on the outskirts of the city, 500 meters from the fence entangled by barbed wire, because of which the sharp sounds of the roll-drawn and bark of dogs were heard in the morning, wearing water from the speaker And wait in the morning until soldiers arrive and dig out the way out of the house, after another PURGI. Her mind did not understand what exactly at such moments and personal growth occurs, the quality of personal potential changes, the skill of achieving its own goals is being formed. But I intuitively felt that the choice with the arrival was correct and it gave forces. And the Universe, his extraordinary northern lights, as if, was tuned and supported her in the knowledge of himself associated with the birth of a child. Just 15 hours ...
This is only an episode from the life that took place in the described time, mainly intuitively. Much later, I thought about what I am who I am and began a conscious path to a successful woman.
... when I was asked to write an article on the topic "Personal growth of women and the success of a woman: how are they connected?", I understood one thing - I will not write academic, resorting to professional vocabulary to give a written significance). Just show how our entire life path is a consequence of our personality development. And if we do not stop in our development, do not brake and, even more so, do not move in the opposite direction, they always come to success.
When a successful woman suggest that she was just lucky, it sounds ridiculous. Accident is one of the manifestations of patterns. And not only in the philosophical sense. A successful woman is the woman who was able to consciously go to his life way, throwing infantilism, fears of change, make their habit of entering from one "zone of turbulence" to another and see in this movement the meaning of his life. This is a personal growth.
Personal growth is qualitative changes in personal potential, successfully solving life tasks and opening a rich life prospect. Personal growth allows, first of all, to build relations with himself, reach inner harmony, build relationships with the outside world and become a relevant and implemented person.
A person is not born, the personality becomes. Well, or do not become ...
In the concept Success enters the achievement of the goals in the intended case, receiving public recognition.
When a woman develops, grows personally, then it has an understanding of the meaning of his life. Accordingly, this is:
- There is a feeling of internal freedom and independence.
- There is an understanding of causal relationships in the surrounding world
- the skill of life analysis is formed
- a conscious understanding of models of their behavior and, as a result, the introduction of new models, which will rather lead to the intended result
- It is possible to better understand people and build communication with them, taking into account their individual characteristics.
- It turns out to take responsibility for his actions, actions, choice;
- The ability to love yourself, people, the world around. Living with an open heart, emit warm and light ...
Perhaps this is the most important thing that the woman receives when comes on the road of its development. Of course, the personal growth of women and success are not just connected. They are intertwined by invisible threads, of which a woman creates its space of love, catches a vitality in which he has a lot of pleasure.