Fashion is a non-permanent thing and changing at the speed of light, but fashion for success, I think will last for a long time. This is a lot of reasons, but the most important is in the pyramid of the butter.
"Success does not need a person"
Think about these words. What reaction do they cause you? If bewilderment, then we are on the same wave! Agree, a person without a certain place of residence (simply speaking, the homeless), which cannot satisfy its basic needs - to provide himself with shelter, food and security, - will not reach the stars. He can dream, but then go to seek shelter, dinner and overnight. Because you do not need this person success! He is not prioritized for him.
Another thing is a man with a house, family, full refrigerator and warm bed. Here already basic needs are satisfied, and you can reach the stars. As a rule, to such thoughts come to 30-40 years, because at this age the race for material values stops and the thoughts "Who am I, what I want, what I need, how can I get it, what place I occupy Socyum. "
Race for success begins when basic needs are satisfied
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So what is success?
This is a recognition in society. You can be a housewife with five children, an ideal apartment and a tightened body, but it will not be considered success. At the same time, women who simply exist and are fighting for survival, raising three children, are not conceived about this area of life.
What do you think, what is the difference between these women? The first, undoubtedly, can think about the stars, but sitting at home, not to find these stars. Another thing, if it leads an active social life - for example, engaged in charity. It will be recognized, it is implemented, it can be called successful.
If a woman is thinking about how to feed the children, then social indicators of success are hardly worried
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The second woman simply does not think about his success - she has other priorities and other thoughts. Her head is busy financial and family problems, and about himself, it is quite likely that such a woman will remember soon, because basic needs are satisfied with difficulty and not completely. Is she successful? Not.
But there is another extreme. Very particular, women consider themselves unsuccessful, and when they ask them: "What is successful for you? How do you understand that you are successful? " "They don't know what to answer, because there is no understanding what they want." And if a woman is successful in the eyes of others, implemented and absolutely happy, it does not mean that she herself believes.
Is I successful?
To answer this question, and that the answer reflects the real state of affairs, it is worth deciding "that for me female success in general and my success in particular." To do this, I can offer you to complete one simple exercise.
Write a list of criteria for a successful woman and highlight those directions that need your attention
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Take a sheet of paper and write on it all the criteria for which you define the success of others. It may be the presence of a car, apartments, careers, families, money, travel - anything! From this list of criteria, mark those that are applied to you, which you really would like for yourself. And as soon as you finish with the lists, you can determine whether you are successful or not, what kind of life it is worth tightening and where to apply.
Yes, fashion for success dictates its own rules, but if you want to be successful and, most importantly, happy, do not pull for everyone - stay yourself, and happiness will always be with you.