To seriously think about it, I made me once seen the communication of an adult with my child. The boy tried to press the button in the elevator, for some reason she did not light up, in response to this father, with irritation, said: "You can't click normally"? The offspring looked at the dad with bewilderment, because in this case the word "normal" was not attached to a clear instruction. It can strongly, and maybe weakly, and maybe with all the power of a fist. This case is far from the only one.
Mother in conversation with daughter says: "Why can't you find a normal guy"? In this case, the "normal" is the one who will like the mother itself. And what about the fact that to live with him side about the side to have a daughter?
Let's go further - a divertillary grandmother with pain in his heart speaks his grandchildren: "Put normally." Salad, first, second and compote with pancakes - abundantly, fat, calorie - that's what is "normal". Now, when many people follow the naturalness of the products, they eat separately, sit on all sorts of diets, refuse meat, salt, sugar, yeast, carefully study the labels, such a conflict of generations for food issues is not uncommon. In the view of the older generation - this is a nightmare, abnormally, that is.
Another example. Can you spit or suck on asphalt? Not? And someone does not see anything reprehensible and consider the norm.
Well, for a snack - you will not come to mind to eat your colleague on work only for the fact that he has something "pump." And in the tribe Yali, that in the state of Papua New Guinea, to eat with its enemy is still considered a big valor.
Examples, I think, is enough, we turn to the conclusions. First, know what the word "normal" is hidden approximately seven billion concepts - exactly as many people live on the planet. Each has its own truth - for you wild, and for your neighbor it is acceptable and, again, is normal.
And secondly, in view of such a different, and sometimes diametrically opposite interpretation of the term "normally", be prepared for the fact that most of the human conflicts will flare up on this basis. You are trying to "squeeze" another person in the framework of your life concept and when it does not work, you are annoyed, angry.
Before once again someone "redoing", ask yourself: What are you right to interfere in someone else's life? The law considers the invasion of the territory of private ownership as a crime, despite the fact that you can violate the borders of a person's personal space. According to some incomizional law, parents interfere with children, and those in turn, in the life of parents, husbands lead the actions of wives, and their wives do the same.
Want to live happily? Live your life and do not try to impose your own concepts with others - they are good only for you. But as you know, "that Russian is good, then the German death." And most importantly, we are respected to the personal space of another person and do not forget to protect your other people's invasion. And my weekly astrological forecast will help to learn about the trends of the current week.
8 August. The ability to compromise is the main success factor today. It does not work something - take a step back, disperse, do not rush with conclusions. Wins patient, not prompted.
August 9. Very productive day for business. A business attitude prevails in communication, so I betray the facts try to be as specific and accurate as possible. Any endeavors promise to be successful.
August 10. The day patronizes people active and inquisitive. Want to succeed - be so today. Good travel and get acquainted.
11th August. Today you can wake up the spirit of competition. If you do not compete with anyone, challenge yourself.
12th of August. Summing up today, you can notice with surprise that you have done three times more planned. Especially good to complete the cases that you have been postponed for a long time.
August 13. Do not be sad if most plans for today remain unrealized. Do not plan anything important, refrain from distant trips.