Such a dream sent me the reader of the column. The sleep is frank and accurate, allowing her wisely to treat the life stage in which she is now.
"Rainy autumn day, I came to the church for confession. Batyushka young and inexperienced. I cry and tell him that I am holding offense to my mother, my relatives (brother and sisters), on the son and daughter, who, as I think, betrayed me. I can not go out to let this offense. He silent and began to baptize me. But the cross turned out to be incomplete, he forgot to touch the right shoulder. I tell him about it, and he does not hear and leaves. I'm in despair that everything that went down, remained with me, since the wrong cross with me did not remove it all. Then I see that I met the steps in the park. They are raw and on them hanging leaves. But I started revenge from the beginning of the stairs, but the last steps, and did not get the leaves to scrape from the steps. So woke up.
As I understand this dream. Radial autumn is my real period of life, it is difficult to call it clear and sunny. Not allowed sins are my offenses that interfere with me to move on. I'm stuck in them. And the sweeping of the steps is the work I do lately to clear my inner space, free yourself from the accumulated trash in the shower and live on. Many has already passed, it remains quite a bit, the easiest, but there is the most old dirt that is not yet possible to remove. And the mud is again my insults. "
Our dreamy all accurately noticed about his sleep, and even nothing to add.
She sweels the accumulated dirt from the soul, dismissed, puts order in his life so as not to drag them further.
With this crisis, every person faces, whose children grow up and leave it. I know that the children of our dreams rose and engaged in their families. And she remained alone. And if earlier it was possible to dare to take care of the care of children, thereby forgetting about our own resentment, then alone, all depressed feelings are returned again.
In a dream there is an interesting image - a young father who baptizes is wrong. Since all images in a dream are us, then this image is our dreaming, which is ineptly and timidly trying to forgive and let go of yourself their resentment and claims to loved ones. While in a dream she does not work, but it tries. Her ability to forgive himself, allow himself to make mistakes still very immature, like a young father. And the dream reflects her attempts to look at their life experience from the side and get rid of the excess, accumulated years of cargo.
We wish her good luck!
Maria Dyachkova, PSYCHOLOGIST, Family therapist and leading trainings of personal growth Training center Marika Khazin