The situation is unpleasant, however, it can happen to every person who married. Our country occupies one of the leading positions on divorce statistics: × 58%. The country with the most stronger marriages is not the first year Japan is 26% divorced. According to statistics, each second marriage ends with a divorce, although every third marriage decayed another 10 years ago.
Sociologists argue that nothing surprising happened, just now the moment came when a generation of the 90s came to the marriage age, and we know about a disadvantaged demographic situation at that time. However, this is not the main reason.
Each family, without a doubt, have its own reasons for the break, so it would be incorrect to call one-sole. Perhaps people cannot fall into views on religious moments, social, political, and so on. Nevertheless, it is possible to distinguish the categories of the causes than we will do:
Early marriage rarely manages
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Early marriage
One of the most popular reasons. The fact is that at an early age, the probability of accepting an incorrect decision regarding the partner is the highest. Young people do not imagine what adult relationships and joint life are, so after the registry office there are quite a few discoveries and often not the most pleasant. Crashing dreams and expectations very often lead to the termination of such a rapid marriage.
Treason
The second most popular reason. Male adoption of men, if you believe statistics. Not every woman is ready to forgive her husband such an insult, but adding feminine emotion, we get a grand scandal and a complete break of relationships. Well, if everything limits only a pair divorce, quite often women begin to pursue the ex-husband, trying to take revenge in various ways.
The appearance of a child is always a big shake
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Changes to change
Search for new sensations on the side. After many years of marriage, people comes a measured life, so some are sent to love adventures, completely forgetting about the consequences.
Dissatisfaction in sex. When an intimate life for some reason deteriorates or generally comes on no, people begin to "starve", but quickly find consolation in the arms of a completely outsider.
Divorce associated with the advent of the child
This refers to a greater extent to young couples, which we have already said, are not always aware of the seriousness of marital relations. People are trying to "go" to each other, and the emergence of a new family member is always big stress. Therefore, many, not withstanding the psychological burden, just leave the family.
Differences of characters
The utter lack of general topics is extremely negatively affecting the construction of a future family. This does not mean that a woman should love football in a couple of months and attend every match with her husband, just the husband is not obliged to be a fan of classical theatrical productions. In modern families, quite a big emphasis is placed on the preservation of a personal space in which much can be incomprehensible to one of the spouses, which also causes the tight.
One of the main reasons - treason
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Problems in life
Yes, socks scattered around the apartment are often becoming a good reason for submitting an application for divorce. However, for the most part, people manage to agree on comfortable coexistence on one territory, unless we are talking about unnecessary emotional guys.
Marriage of convenience
The persecution of mercantile goals has never ended with nothing good. Agree, the marriage, built on the expectations of financial or professional assistance from the spouse, can hardly be called healthy.
A little digit
Let's return to our sociologists who claim that age is considered the strongest period of marriage from 20 years to 30. Oddly enough, the couples who have married after 30 are often disintegrated. And the fact is that an adult has much more spouse requirements, And rarely, who is able to comply with these requirements.
Up to 50 years, women are the main initiators of divorces, whereas after 50 the situation changes, and men are already ready to run and apply. Such a late divorce is beneficial from a material point of view, because children rose, and therefore the alimony will not have to pay.