Friendship sex: Is there a future in these relationships

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10 years ago, sex in friendship perceived as something incomprehensible, but now he is gaining increasing popularity not only in Russia, but also on a global scale. According to surveys, 55% of students admitted that at least once, but they had intimate experience with a friend or girlfriend.

More and more directors are interested in this topic, shooting such paintings as "friendship sex" or "more than sex." As a rule, in such films the plot is quite boring and predictable: the victims reven on the personal front, several friends find support from the same unfortunate friends, spend the night together, and then begin to experience each other.

Many admit that a friendly sex tried in student

Many admit that a friendly sex tried in student

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In real life, the motivation of people is not always justified by failures with other partners, but in one films they do not lie: sex in friendship is a complex and confusing thing.

What is it

Sex with a friend can happen the following reasons:

Friends want to experiment, relying on the impressions of films on a similar topic.

Just sex without commitment. People are periodically sleeping, but there is no real friendship between them.

Just in case. Partners negotiate in advance to become each other with an option in case of "idleness" in a personal life.

Care from friendship. People want to go to a new level in relationships.

Accident. When the spark suddenly flashes between people, and they understand that from now on there is no friendship.

For most partners practicing free relations, only sex is the main cause of the "friendly" connection. In any case, for men, this factor is most often determining, but women need any emotional support. Women are not against if free sex takes effect into something more serious, the men consider sex with her friend just as a way of discharge without further development.

there is a danger to fall in love and not get a mutual answer

there is a danger to fall in love and not get a mutual answer

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And that with difficulties

Problems begin there, where one of the partners "friends" becomes little only physical contact. It is almost impossible to meet on an ongoing basis for sex and all this time to experience the same emotions, once someone in a pair wants to either develop relationships or finally break them.

What is waiting for "close" friends

And again, specialists come to the rescue with surveys: about 30% of students stated that in their relationship nothing has changed, 35% broke off intimate relationships, remaining friends, 10% became a couple, and another 25% ceased to communicate.

There are two options: either you part, or become a pair

There are two options: either you part, or become a pair

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