Surely you have a girlfriend from the category of "clever and beauty", but lonely. And here it comes to you almost every Saturday evening, to complain about your failed personal life, which she would like to arrange, and not with whom. And you sit and think: "How is it? All with it, and it is even difficult for her to find a man. What do they need? " There are many such decent girls, and problems with men, no matter how strange it, there are still exist. Perhaps they commit the same mistakes.
It is worth going out on the street, and you see couple everywhere. You look at the girl, and objectively, it does not stand out by anything, but there is still the rings on her finger. And the girls like your girlfriend at this time have already lost all hope of building a family.
We decided to figure out what is the matter why someone is lucky, and someone does not.
Perhaps your potential partner is somewhere near
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Woman does not see a worthy candidate
One of the most common problems when a woman overwhelms the bar when choosing a man. On the question of acquaintances, why she still goes to a restaurant with girlfriends, and not with a man, a woman is responsible that she has not yet met a decent satellite. However, the problem may not be at all in men, but in it yourself, as it usually happens.
Let us return to our now a common acquaintance that we mentioned above: despite the large number of novels, she still fails to build a family with one of the cavaliers. She answers all questions that everyone has some lack that crosses all the advantages. Etc.
In this case, almost nothing can be proved. No matter how much you argue, recommend to reduce the bar, everything is without.
Everyone who recognized themselves in this situation should review their expectations for the future cavalier. Let him not earned a million dollars, but what prevents you from helping him to do this? Of course, you do not need to make a marriage of the first oncoming, but also not worth cut off from yourself, it's not worth it, you may have a person who you do not notice next to you, but he can become an ideal husband.
Will behave naturally
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No time for the relationship
Now there are few people who have time even on himself, not to mention the search for a suitable partner. Here you can agree that it is impossible to find someone, being a limited circle of communicating colleagues and friends. Try to distribute time so that you can go to the exhibition, buffet, show or event where you can meet a strong sex representative.
In the extreme case there is an Internet, however, there are our dangers, for example, you never know who they will be pushing, in addition, it is on dating sites most of all maniacs.
The conclusion is: Act, because under the lying stone water does not flow.
Excessive independence
There are such girls who are accustomed to solve all their problems solely on their own. Of course, there is nothing wrong with that, only sometimes it can become a real problem. We are not talking about confident in our decisions of the business, we are talking about complexes from childhood when a person has not learned to trust the world around.
This relationship is transmitted and in communicating with men. It's hard to believe that a man does not betray a person. However, without trust, it is impossible to build a family, so start with a small one: let a man decide any questions that do not really affect your life, for example, chooses and buys tickets on vacation, books a table in the restaurant, buys a gift to your mom. Already then gradually you will understand whether this person is worthy to entrust him with his life, or not.
View of men hunters
Do not think that men do not understand hints and views. Hungry before the marriage of a woman, this installation is written on the forehead, so try not so desperately look at your potential "sacrifice". This man can frighten it healthy, because they are zealously guarded freedom from the encroachment of any woman.
When communicating, relax, behave most naturally. At least do not write first - let a man take the first step. The initiative from a woman is good, but sometimes it is worth a penalties for the sake of the person who you really like.
Think that unworthy of love
The reason may not be at all in the affected self-esteem, they are simply actually there are such women who do not consider themselves the fatal beauties for which the male turn the mountains.
Remember that your gestures, postures and gait talk about your setting and vision of yourself, so if you want to attract a man of your dreams, keep yourself as if you have already met him: listen to your feelings - your mood should rise, and confidence not Forced himself to wait, like a man you imagine in fantasies.
Output : Turn the negative thoughts to your account and start thinking positively. You will see that the result will appear if not instantly, then in the near future.
Happiness will not make himself wait
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