It would seem that any man attracts tenderness, softness, fasciance and other attributes of the "real woman." However, having lived with his partner for several years, the man unconsciously begins to "suppress" all female manifestations. How does this happen and what to do about it? We will tell.
You live by template
The female psyche is arranged in such a way that constant, almost mechanical, actions are able to undermine the mental health of even the most calm representative of the opposite sex. The woman "explodes" about and without, the more often flashed scandals, the more partner is exhausted and "leaves" to themselves, forgetting about the women's start, which is not surprising with an unstable emotional background. Try not to "rub" in everyday life, everyday life and look for all new impressions, but only together.
You avoid manifestation of feelings
An error that does if not everyone does, then every second man. This is not surprising, because men and women are represented by a relationship completely differently: a woman needs manifestation of feelings, while many men do not see the need for romance and a banal bouquet of flowers without a reason. "I am doing everything for her everything I can" - the motto of the average man. Caring and experience for your woman is fine, but that the partner can wake in itself sensuality and did not lose it throughout the period of relationship, it is important to "spur" by its real manifestations of his love. Men, think about.
Woman needs your attention
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Do you think a woman will cope with everything herself
Yes, a woman is an equal partner and, accordingly, an adult person who can solve his problems without any assistance. But the more the woman acquires independence, the less she needs male attention, which means her femininity goes to the second and third plan. Imagine that your woman asks you to change the rubber on the car, and you send it to the salon with the words: "Well, you yourself will cope." Cope. But do not expect from such a "independent" woman tenderness and warmth.
You do not leave her choice
For a woman there is nothing worse than the prohibition of active social life. Internal confidence and high self-esteem directly depend on the position of a woman in society, from relationships with friends and loved ones. Forbidden to a woman to live as it is necessary, naturally, in the framework of a reasonable, the man does with his own hands blocks the desire of a woman to exercise his female entity. You can discuss with the partner all the moments that you do not suit and what you see your relationship, but total control and ban on everything will turn your woman into a scored homemade woman to which you will lose interest very quickly. Do you need it? We doubt.