Many people believe that the presence of a child or high position automatically makes us adults. However, both mother are irresponsible and serious work does not affect our inner formation. There are certain signs for which you can calculate the person being consistent, let's figure it out.
Two communication with people unpleasant to you minimize
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Mature man does not try to remake others
The person who understood that each of us has its own opinion, which is worthy of respect. When a person is trying to hand over to his side, and it does not matter how rights he is, is talking about his instability.
Usually, if you don't like something in other people, you can simply not communicate, and if you do not allow circumstances, then give communication to a minimum.
Does not depend on the surrounding
Mature man himself manages his life and does not expect that relatives and friends will decide for it. As you do not have to change others, you do not let the rest, do not let you hint, and even worse - tell you in the open, that it is time to change and your lifestyle or worldview is not suitable. These people do not hold anything, say that they can stop chat with you at any time, but you are not going to change dramatically for them.
And in general, if an adult needs the Council, he usually asks, and does not tolerate conversations in the instructive tone.
Be responsible for your own solutions.
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Everyone is mistaken
Do not allow others to judge you for misconduct that do not affect their lives directly. Everyone is mistaken, including your acquaintances, and this is normal. Mature man understands all his weaknesses, and therefore refers to them calmly.
When we are mistaken, we get an additional experience that you need to analyze and continue to try to avoid such situations.
Help with your capabilities
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Mature man knows how to refuse no sense of guilt
Many familiar, especially cunning relatives, love to manipulate, mercilessly at the feeling of guilt. However, you should not live someone else's life, you have your own who cannot wait. Of course, as necessary, you need to support and offer assistance, but not to the detriment of our own time and resources. This does not mean that you are the finished egoist, you just appreciate yourself and do everything in your power.
Mature man is always responsible for his actions
Only in youth you can do business, and then complain to parents and hope that they will decide. If you consider yourself an adult person, and so it is most likely there, it is necessary to learn to respond for any actions. You incorrectly decided the task with the child, and he got unsatisfactory assessment? Admit this fact, and try to make it better next time, and do not dump the guilt on the teacher. And so act in everything.