Since the main readers of the magazine are women, always interesting, and how are they? In men. Men often surprise their women ability to deeply and fine feel, trust intuition. Contrary to the common stereotype about the brutal stallion, women love men for their sensitivity, tenderness, the ability to empathy. Therefore, it is always interesting to get a dream for your column from a man, husband and father babes. Now we will share all together, about what the dream "says" with him.
First dream:
"We are going with family on the bridge, we see the river. We descend and stand under this bridge near the river. The water in the river is transparent, and as if the light is visible through the water. Unexpectedly, the daughter falls into the water, I jump over her, but plunging very quickly, much faster my daughter, but I manage to save. After some time, the daughter turns out again in the water, and again I jump over her, but it sinks so quickly that I do not have time to get to my daughter. I wake up from horror. "
Second Son:
"We were family in some third place (someone else's, an unfamiliar place), was crowded. The room is large, half empty. I stand alone, moved away from the family, and then some woman tells me that the child should be helped, the wife does not look behind him. I resort to another room - the daughter climbed into some kind of grid, stuck, and the wife stands hypnotized. I do not give it much importance, I even think of withdrawing to your phone my wife, laugh together then. I pull out my daughter and want to go to thank the woman who called me. The feeling that everything is OK with family. But literally after 15 seconds I come back, but they are not, they disappeared, as they fell through the ground. I see some kind of woman on the place of my wife. She is terrible, in a blue bathrobe with white circles, I understand that she absorbed his wife and daughter. It goes, I'm going to catch it up, I understand that it is easy to catch it up, but the legs do not obey me, shouting: "Give!" And I wake up with horror. "
Well, examples are hichkok's faster. Even when I just started to lead a column, I mentioned that the main component was the main thing in decoding. Both sleep about the horror of family losses or daughter. Moreover, both times women are helpless and vulnerable before water. Water symbolically reflects the female, femininity, the image of the mother. And in the second dream the symbol is still visually - a terrible woman who stole his wife and daughter.
If I had this case with the client in practice, then my first question was: "Tell me, what are your relationship with your mother?" If everything is fine there, what I doubt, the relationship with the mother-in-law.
Both of these sleep permeates the horror in front of the absorbing female energy, in whose puchin is lost daughter and wife. Perhaps this is due to relationships with a reputable woman in the life of a dream, in front of which he will leave, fights with her and often loses, and the consequences of this loss feels in his own family.
If it were not lines of text, then in personal work, I would suggest a dream to reveal the influence of his relationship with my mother on his current life, to raise my own daughter, but most importantly, to feel like a rescuer who cannot help and save. On the feeling of helpless and frightened.
And what dreams of you? Examples of your dreams send by mail: [email protected]. By the way, dreams are much easier to express if in a letter to the editor you will write preceding life circumstances, but most importantly - feelings and thoughts at the time of awakening from this dream.
Maria Dyachkova, PSYCHOLOGIST, Family therapist and leading trainings of personal growth Training center Marika Khazin