A considerable percentage of women is shameful if there is a completely different person during the proximity to his beloved man. According to psychologists, most often this situation cannot be called a problem, at least until it becomes reflected in your relations with a partner.
You are not alone in your fantasies
According to polls, both women and men are represented in place of their second half, with which they are in relations at least a few years, another person, and this person does not have to exist in reality. Although women fantasize more often. What is interesting, about 20% honestly admitted that in the place of the current lover they represent the former or former.
Why does our consciousness require "new persons"?
The main gender organ is the brain. It is here that all the processes responsible for the arousal are happening, and all sorts of fantasies are born, when ordinary methods of stimulation work is no longer so good. As a rule, such fantasies do not have prerequisites for implementation: our consciousness creates comfortable conditions that do not carry hazards. Sexologists in one voice confirm that there is no real danger in sexual fantasies, but only until the moment they become obsessive.
According to statistics, approximately half of all women do not mind to fantasize
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At what point is to start worrying?
As we said, fantasies about another partner a couple of times a year can not affect anyone or on your partner. If you catch yourself think that your real man has become the third during sex between you and an imaginary partner, there is a reason to turn to a specialist, since the time symptom says that your relationship with a man is experiencing not the best time, it is important to find out on time The reason otherwise the gap is not far off. Be careful to what happens between you.
Is there a way to completely overcome obsessive fantasies?
Before you go to the Cabinet of a specialist, try to analyze your fantasies: what exactly attracts you in an imaginary partner and what qualities does your real lover lack? Perhaps you want more perseverance, rudeness or vice versa suddenness? Why not ask for this instead of suffering from a feeling of guilt before a loved one?