When you go to the interview, expect that you will be assessed exclusively by professional qualities, it is not worth it. An experienced Eichar can make an opinion about the candidate ten minutes after the beginning of the conversation. Probably, it is not even worth talking how exciting for each of us is any interview when taking a job, and therefore we all make mistakes that can be avoided if you prepare for the interview in advance. Today we decided to talk about how accurately should not come if you apply for the post of your dream.
You do not see borders
We can not know for sure how painful people relates to a violation of personal borders, and therefore any attempts to approach the recruiter, the desire to lean on the table, take some thing from the table, can be perceived extremely aggressively, naturally, a person does not apply, but Take your behavior to note, be careful. Imagine that there is a glass wall between you, which cannot be concerned.
don't break the personal space
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You do not look into the eyes
Of course, it is not necessary to look unreachably in the eyes - it strains. However, we also do not advise completely abandon the visual contact. At the subconscious level, a person trusts a person who is not afraid to look into the eyes and some time to detain a look. If during the conversation you like to "shoot" through the eyes on the sides, try to keep yourself in your hands and do not do so in the presence of Eichar or the future leader.
You are too active gesticulating
No, it's not necessary to keep your hands on your knees, but also an irritating knock with your fingers on the table will not bring you to a step towards a dream. In stressful situations, many of us begin to straighten their hair, touch the face or unpleasantly clicking the handle, if you know this feature, take something in your hands to take them something. Recruitor is important what you say, and not what you do.
You are trying too hard
Smoothly flowing point from the previous one. If you sit near or opposite the interlocutor, he sees you perfectly, so why do you have powerful gestures with your hands, trying to reinforce your speech? Mentally silence the sphere around itself, for which you can not go out. This will help you hold back when you want to start gesticulate without stopping.
Missing signals
Another frequent moment that becomes a real problem - your gestures and words do not coincide. There is nothing more strange than to tell some unpleasant story with a laugh or lead a pleasant conversation with arms crossed. Watch yourself!
You do not smile
It would seem that a pretty banal council - more smile, but nevertheless, we often forget about it and very in vain, since a smile sometimes can do incredible things. No wonder many business coaches put this moment almost in the first place - your task is to create an atmosphere of goodwill, start with a smile who knows, maybe it will conquer strict Eichar.