The older generation is good assistants in child care. When parents are forced early to go to work after the birth of the baby or they want to periodically rest alone with each other, grandmothers are the only to whom they can trust Choo. The truth is not always their influence on the child is positive. We tell than "Babushkino" education can be dangerous.
Inability to trust the signals
No wonder there is a joke that it is impossible to go from the grandmother's grandmother. Even the most slender child for vacation in the village can be chosen to immense sizes. Moreover, many of them, brought up in the post-war time, do not really understand what needs to control the amount of food consumed and listen to themselves to distinguish the hunger from thirst and stop there when you are full. Grandmothers after each meal are trying to give sweetness - cake or candy. The habit of complementing full-fledged dishes with products that are not supported for the body, badly affects the health of the child.
Watch out what grandmothers learn grandchildren
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Shame of the type of own body
Soviet education did not give people enough freedom. Walking around the house without clothes or directly in close relations with the opposite sex was considered shame. In modern realities, the situation is completely different, so it is worth it to strictly stop attempting to adopt the desire of the child not to shone their movements within the framework of the house. Explain to grandmothers that such behavior on their part, like a person's close to a child, will cause him a psychological trauma.
Inability to speak in public
How many times have you heard that the older generation is trying to reassure the child, forcing him to behave quieter. There is nothing shameful in that while a walk, the child can start singing or dance directly on the playground. The desire to stand out from the crowd is a normal step of growing up a child, during which a certain model of behavior is enshrined. Better write it to the circle and ask the grandmother to drive a baby to classes to satisfy both sides.
Condemnation of the behavior of parents
In a conversation with a grandmother, a child can learn a lot about mom and dad. Well, if you support close relationship with your parents. In the opposite case, you will have to settle unresolved conflicts before you entrust the child's grandmother. Usually grandmothers express children all that they think about the actions of their sons and daughters, so that those conveyed their thoughts to their parents. In this case, any respect and relatives of generations cannot go speech. Therefore, it is better not once again not to tell them about your problems and plans, so as not to provoke quarrels.
Be friends with your parents
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