In December, Elizabeth, Boyarskaya for the second time became a mother. Six-year-old Andryusha appeared brother Grisha. In a month, a young mother returned to his performances and began rehearsals. But with all his devotion of the profession, she admits that being a mother is steeper than an actress, and that today from communicating with their children, from observing each step she gets true pleasure. Details - in an interview with the magazine "Atmosphere".
- Lisa, you somehow said that you understand the actors who almost do not talk about themselves. And it always seemed to me that you were sincerely in an interview and are absolutely reading in them ...
- It's true, I am sincerely. I just don't work differently. (Smiles.) Although it seems more correct to me when the artist remains a mystery, then in his roles the viewer sees characters, and not a person about whom they know everything. But on the other hand, if the actor is convincing, it should be anyway. I often fond when I start talking to a journalist, if it is an interesting interlocutor. I myself begin to reflect and check ourselves in something. Interview is also self-analysis.
- Now your acting excitement did not muffle the birth of the second child?
- muffled. I understand that be a mother is cooler than the actress. Although I know that for a long time without this profession, I can not exist, but I will not definitely be able to try to try everything. It would be an ideal once in a yearle. To say that I now want some new job, - no. I have a lot of responsibilities in the theater: performances, rehearsals, and I am happy about it. While I want to sit at home with my boys, look like they grow, drive them to classes, ride with them in different places. From this I get true pleasure, I feel a full, successful, implemented and happy.
- What does Andryusha do? More recently, you said that you do not want to download it very much ...
"He is engaged in English, music, chess, goes to reading courses, masters Skate." He does not attend the kindergarten, so everything is evenly distributed a week, and it is not too overloaded.
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- Does everyone do with pleasure and music?
- I do not know a single child who would gladly run to the instrument, because it is a big job. He likes to select melodies, but sometimes it is difficult for him to stop and play the gamma. I read a lot of interviews of famous conductors and musicians about how parents were tormented and forced to do and they hated music. We have no goal to make from Andrei Musician, so there is no rule - play the piano for hours every day, he does it several times a week at the hour. And for general musical development is quite enough. In chess plays with great pleasure and doing successes. It seems to me that it is very good for intellectual development. And Andryushi mathematical warehouse of the mind. By the way, and Max and Dad also have a good chess game. Skeet Son is mastering with Maxim. Grisha will grow up and we join them. I will get on the rollers, in my childhood I rode pretty well, even made tricks.
"You're all in the children, but you have a serious rehearsal of" Karamazov "in your native theater and is about to begin on the" Uncle Van "in the theater of nations ...
- Completely, in addition, the Moscow premiere of the play "1926", based on the correspondence of Marina Tsvetaeva and Boris Pasternak, will be held very soon. And I play quite a lot of performances in my MDT. And at the very end of May, the director Stefan Braunschweig comes, and we begin to rehearse "Uncle Vanya", the premiere in September. I will play Elena Andreevna. I planly plan only at the end of summer, and it is not very long.
- You have another meeting with Chekhov. He is already a sign author for you ...
- Yes, he is already native for me. I love Chekhov very much, and play his huge pleasure. He is bottomless. People relating to the theater know how all his plays begin and what words are ends, everything is disassembled by quotations, and yet it is always interesting to find your own key, try on the role and then enjoy the infinite knowledge of Chekhov and its partners.
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- I think that without the help of your parents, you would not have coped with your load in the theater ...
- Sure! Their help is 100%, now we live in St. Petersburg all together, we still have a nanny, and our second grandmother is constantly coming to us. After some time we will move to our apartment, but she is near. We are so with each other related that even by passing, we will not disperse.
- Prepare you or mom?
"We need to prepare only for Pope and Andrei, I and Maxim I order myself for a month." Only at Maxim Power - sports, and I have a diet of a nursing mom. It is convenient, varied and tasty. And mom eats everything that remains after Andrei and Pope. (Laughs.) Therefore, in fact, the mother prepares dad, and Andrei is preparing in turn, depending on who is at home.
- For some reason, it seems to me that such a joint stay is most pleased with your dad ...
- In fact, this is for all happiness. It is clear that sometimes we experience some inconvenience, because we do not always coincide, we do not always have the same looks. But this is natural, we are people of different generations, we bring up children in different ways, but it is not fundamentally. I still understand that someday, thirty years later, I will remember these moments when the children were small and we were all together, they were happy. I guess that in some families a complex relationship, sometimes children suffer and want to move away from their parents, conflicts occur, but we, thank God, this is not. Therefore, you need to appreciate every moment. I think about it, and we are not in a hurry to run away anywhere.
- Maxim said that he would take an "maternity leave", at least from filming. So what happened?
- Yes, until the end of January, he did not even play in the theater, fully December and January was at home with us. At the end of May, it will begin to remove tightly, and it is right, it's time to return to construction.
- Did anything changed in your relationship with Maxim? You are both concentrated on small. Sometimes it is difficult periods, especially for men ...
- No, nothing has changed. We are caring parents, loving husband and wife, cool friends. So nothing left, maybe even increased, because the number of love gained.
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- And how do you think, with the birth of Andrei Maxim himself changed in something?
- Parents are obliged to be good psychologists and diplomats, so as not to injure the child, not offend. And Maxim became even more sensitive. Before the birth of children, we focused on themselves and on each other, and motherhood and paternity unfolds people in relation to others. You become less impulsive, you think before you say a sharp word, we weight any decision. With children it is impossible to do something in the sorry, thoughtlessly. And then it is very helpful in life. Fatherhood changes men. Someone is to a lesser extent, someone - more. For some, it is enough to periodically say the child "goat, goat", clapping the ass, at best - make money. And for Maxim, paternity is one of his calls. He is a stunning father, can spend twenty-four hours a day with a child with pleasure, and not just puts him to watch cartoons. No, he will talk to him, coloring together something or draw, saw, read, walk with him, can get sick and cook him. In general, he is like a mother, just a friend, and a mentor. I really like that Maxim with Andryusha communicate as comrades. This is a good ground for the future for father-in-law. I think he will be the same attentive and caring. Now I am more with Grisys, but nevertheless I have all the first month, when I had to get up several times at night, I never had such a thing that I was lying up with a child, and he slept. He all the time helped me quietly, feed, worn in his arms, we did everything together. And therefore the first month, always heavy enough, passed in such joy and ease that he delivered one pleasure. Now it is no longer scary to have children also, and how much God gives.
- Is there a maximum program?
- Of course, we will not reach fanatism, you would have to have three it would be perfect. And there ... let's see. With the second child, I even more realized that Maternity is absolutely mine, I reveal in this, I solve the color, and therefore I already understand that I still want to survive the time when the kids are small. I love to mess with the kids very much. But until we hurry. It seems to me that the ideal difference between children from four to six years.
- And in the future, would you like a girl?
- At first I really wanted the second to be a daughter, I confess, even a little upset after an ultrasound. And then I realized that no, the guy is great. And now I think, if God gives a third child, it would be great if it was the third kid. But the mother told that, having learned that she would have a girl, he was upset because she did not understand how to behave with them. And now he says: "I do not know how my life happened without you." While I can not imagine how to communicate with girls, and with the boys I feel good and fun.
- And Maxim said to this? It seems to me that he is from gentle dads ...
- He really wanted immediately the second boy. We have not yet knew the sex of the child, but he was sure that there would be a kid.
- You did not want to keep the child's sex secret to his birth?
- Not. I think that it is better to know in advance, because then you cook morally. Although this, of course, it does not matter, the main thing is that the kids are healthy. And Trews was wondering who there. He is very happy that he has a brother. I recently asked him: "Andryusha, and if the girl was?" "He sat, thought and said:" No, we would change it. " (Laughs.)
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- How did Andrei met Grisch?
"He was very waiting for him, asked every day when we arrive." And the long-awaited day came, and he ran right in the socks, ran into the entrance and there began to consider the baby in the lulell. Then we stripped it, Andryusha looked and said everything: "What little, how small". He loves him very much, often comes to the griah, touches him for the cheek, behind the barrels and says: "I love you." And it does it all on their own, not to show what he is brother. No, such sincere love.
- Does he have no jealousy to the baby?
- No, because jealousy may occur in a child only when there is a shortage of attention to it. And Andryusha is now the same is surrounded by care and attention from me, Pope, Grandpa, Grandparents, the second grandmother, nanny. With him all the time playing, engaged, walk. He and dad will saw, then sculpts, they walk together, watch movies, cartoons, playing with me on board games or we walk threesome with Grisha. There is no such that the child felt that attention switched to another family member. He bathes in love, but in our family differently and could not be, so we are all the fans of children.
"You said that parent love cannot be spoiled, to make an egoist, on the contrary, she feeds, gives self confidence ...
"Yes, I remember that I always said that I was the best thing: the most mischievous, playful, the most kind, beautiful, most intelligent ... I remember all intonations with which it was uttered. "And who are we so good? Who is so cute? " There was infinite kissing, adoration, hugging.
- And everything was the same with Sergey, still he is a boy?
"No, no one did difference: a boy or a girl, all tenderness and love poured both at us. And now on Andryuha and Grisch. For children, such happiness when they love so much people.
- Nobody told mom that she too captures you?
- Not. My mother has all the girlfriends are the same crazy, perceived on their babies. And this is normal. In all our environment, children adored and long-awaited. It seems to me that in any relatively prosperous family it is about the same. And to say that you can cross or grab ... It seems to me that the pellery is just an indifference to the child when everyone allows him to: watch infinitely cartoons, tasned with toys, but they do not pay attention, care, love. It is necessary to pamper, and not material benefits and outcome. You can also be demanding, but because you love, because you want your child to be ashamed to have something to do. The severity of love does not interfere, it is all the process of upbringing.
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- And you remember some kind of children, teenage misconduct, for which parents were very dug, punished?
- Sure. In our family, Pope has always been a good police officer, and Mom is strict. (Smiles.) He was not able to even increase my voice on me. Class up to the eighth, I did not study well, walked lessons, for some subjects I had bad academic performance. And at some point, Mamu was called to school, they said that it could no longer continue, it is necessary to fix the situation somehow, and they suggested to think how to make it together and affect me. She did not speak to her for a long time, bold, apparently, it was uncomfortable to call and say: "So, your little girl learns poorly," Troika "here," Two "here, deal!" And they decided on it, only when it was already bad for all the articles, and the mother came to horror, because neither a dream did not know the Spirit what was happening.
- And what, mom diary never watched?
- I am also not fool, my diary was in order, according to my ideas. Everything that needs was defined, which is not needed - erased. (Laughs.) And my mother was terribly upset and screamed me very much, but she didn't just shout, she tried to reach my mind. I explained that you need to finish school well, otherwise I will be stupid, uneducated and can not be a good job to secure a decent life. She said: "It seems to you that I argue some strange things, but in fact it is so! In the end, think what kind of wildness - you are a girl from such a respected in the city of the family, but you behave like a careless child who beat his hands. We love you so much, we put so much in you. Let's try to understand what is hard for you, I don't like, we can take tutors, but you have to pull up, and not for us, but for yourself. You should take the mind and think about your future. " I strongly worked on me, I remember that I shouted in tears: "Oh, God! I disgrace my family! " And Dad defended me and said: "Nothing terrible, the girl can be stupid, most importantly, to be good," and Mom gave him a head: "Misha, what are you talking about?! Who needs it will be stupid? " From now on, she took up for me so that I was not to extend at all until the end of the eleventh grade. I was provided with such employment that after school I had one tutor, then the second, then I ate, came the third, then I did lessons and went to sleep. In general, pulled up so that for three classes I graduated from school without Trok and German learned in almost four years perfection, although it was he who had the most problematic subject. I hired a very cool tutor in German, and now I just adore this language. And the teacher at my school was wonderful - Lyubov Alexandrovna Ravikovich, we support relationships so far. If I was asked now what the subject was the most beloved at school, I would say that German. I went to Germany for the exchange of twice, in Munich, spoke absolutely free in German. When I felt that I had, I didn't have such a stupid, then so it was delighted, that he felt the taste for learning and began to learn well. For that mom is insanely grateful.
- And with Andrews never had to apply rigor?
- I still can not imagine the situation that I will need to collect all my will in the fist (I am very calm, and bring me out of myself extremely difficult) and find moral forces to suddenly become very strict and readily start with the child talk. But if it is necessary, it will have to, because it is also a manifestation of love, which was moving my mom. After all, she could say: "Live, as you want, these are your problems."
- It is difficult to imagine you a breakdown, strolling lessons ...
- Yes, I was just such a thing. That's what now I am a terrible perfectionism, I have a pioneer syndrome, I am all such a feature in life. But in the Theater Institute, all the disciplines were gone, which were complex for me, and there I was already engaged only by what I really like it. The institute graduated with a red diploma, felt one hundred percent taste for learning. And now I have it left, I love to listen to some lectures, something to read, find out ...
- You do not love conflicts. But at the same time in many things you are uncompromising Missna. How is it combined?
- In each situation, everything is individually. If you are offended by me, then I am a hand on it. I do not like when they insult others, offend children or old people. I can start conflict with someone on the street. I remember how I brought a rustle at the station when the drunk man began to handle a rude to the girl. Polvokzala raised his ears, went for the police, which stood near, but even the eye did not look there. In general, it was not enough, he sick himself. When I see injustice towards others, it insults me, even burns. And I am not very and offended by me.
- And if your mother would have said rudeness in the face?
- Mom - this is, too. But, probably, I would come up and said something from the series: "Take it with respect to treat ...", because my anger is usually manifested very quietly. Although I really do not know, and maybe I would have scratched the eyes ...
- How do you carry irresponsibility in others?
- This is what I hate. When they ask me: "What do you most like people most?" - I answer that irresponsibility, negligence, licentiousness and negligent attitude to work. It does not matter to what, whether you are a janitor, who is bad, or a waiter who wipes the glasses, or a person who occupies the highest positions, I can't endure it.
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- And if a close person is always late, does not fulfill promises?
"I'm just angry - and all, but, thank God, in our family we have all very punctual and responsible." As for friends who are a little diluted ... There are people who are chronically late, it terribly takes me out of myself, but what to do? I will call a little and calm down. (I smiles.
- Now, in principle, a lot of excessive ease and optional in the relationship of people, including between a man and a woman ...
- In general, "lightness" and "freedom" - very good words. Nothing can be better than easy relationships in which there is a certain freedom. But I am for traditional family values. And in general, in any close relationship, you need to be able to wait, tolerate, forgive, be kind, responsive, take care what we have. It is necessary to relate to this more seriously and more responsibly, because it is very easy to lose and destroy, and it is much more difficult to preserve.
- How do you feel about civil marriage?
"I am pleased to realize that we are a family in every sense of this word that I am a wife that I have a husband, and we have children." And for someone it is absolutely not fundamentally, but at the same time people live together for a long time and for love, it happens, and all their lives. It is necessary to act as comfortably both.
"It seems to me that it is very important for preserving the feelings to admire and be proud of a loved one, and I feel it in every word about Maxim ...
- Of course, this is important! In my opinion, you are not a smart wife or not a smart husband, if you do not admire your second half. (Smiles.)