The concept of "successful person" is never relevant to residents of large cities: high competition gives rise to the desire to become better, more efficiently for a neighbor and get more with it than usual. However, people who go to success perform the same mistakes again and again. Today we decided to collect highlights that are not peculiar to successful in business and personal relations.
They are not delayed in the comfort zone
Probably the biggest fear of each of us - fear of change. To accept the fact that the difficulties can be found on the way with which, most likely, will have to cope on their own, many leads to horror. It is important to understand that in the place where everything is familiar to you, it is impossible to achieve at least some success - you always need to disclose new horizons. How long have you been solved something to change in your life?
They are not frightened by reasonable criticism
Important - it's about reasonable criticism, reinforced by arguments. If a person is not pleased with your work without any reason, his opinion should not be regarded as an important for you for a specialist. To get such "superposts" in the form of ignoring the attacks in your direction, it is important to work on your own self-esteem, because it is from your perception of myself, whether it will be able to undermine your self-confidence. Do not let people bring you down from the course.
Think out the "pathways"
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For them there is no barriers
Very often, the causes of imaginary failures lie not in the absence of opportunities for the implementation of plans, but in the reluctance of the person himself, look for ways to solve the problem. Remember that any problem is solved, most importantly, finding the right approach than and enjoying successful people, without complaining of "injustice around the world."
For them, already established relationships are important.
Of course, conflicts are possible even with those people with which a trusted relationship has long been installed, and it would seem - there can simply be no shortcoming. However, even the most serious quarrel with an important person in your life is not a reason for these relationships - a successful person is always valid by the accumulated contacts, chanting the number of people, and not their quality - definitely not a man who seeks to achieve more.
They are not surprised by the failures
Even the most thoughtful scheme may not work. And a successful person knows this, and therefore prepares "paths to retreat" in advance or the so-called plan used for an emergency. Take note: Never limit yourself with one option for developing events, be prepared to change something if you have to solve suddenly arising problems, for this it is important to develop psychological flexibility in yourself, only in this case you will achieve the desired without serious losses.