Service novels are easily explained. When people of different sex are on one territory, you want to do not want, and some impulses will arise, even at the chemical level. Unconsciously or quite consciously we are looking for a sexual partner, even if we have our own legitimate and seven at home. Man is so arranged.
Romantic relations in the workplace can be built in different scenarios. Sometimes there is an active flirt that has a stimulating effect. People try to look good, be convincing at their workplace, strive for career altitudes. Mostly, this scheme works in an intellectual, ambitious environment, where, with the help of official novels, people achieve much more than without them.
Another scenario - adaptability: when the head turns an affair with a secretary. In such relationships, we are talking only about pleasant use of each other, and usually the secretary of such bosses are not delayed for a long time. Therefore, dear girls, think about how much you need it.
Sometimes production romance goes beyond the work and ends with a big scandal. And this is the most ugly scenario of the service novel.
Marianna Abavitova
If you can't stay from service novels, try to build a beautiful relationship. To engage in the morality on this topic - a typical manifestation of the chandeliness. Life must be taken as it is. I am against official novels, if they harm work, personality, family and others. I am for service novels, if everything is in winning, including work, and there are no victims. If smart people have a relationship on the side, then in family life, these people try to maintain everything on a positive note.
People with well-developed intuition can calculate the official novel of their second half. More often women are capable of it. In their place, I would not have to arrange scandals, but would simply decide for myself - is it ready to put up with the fact that my man will always have a relationship on the side? If a woman is ready to take this fact, then why scandal, and if not ready - you just need to disperse, do not achieve anything scandals. The person will be even more lying, but it is unlikely to change his behavior.
Service novels rarely end with marriage. There are statistics in which people are married or married, having a service story, most often remain in their families. For them, such an adventure at work can be compared with Cherry on a cake, which, of course, gives the completion of the composition, but the cake is clearly delicious and more.