It seems that it has become a trend: on the streets, in cafes and parks, there are more and more couples in which a woman is a bit, and sometimes much older than their partner. Maybe there are such pairs among your friends, or are you yourself in such a relationship? Let's deal with why this happens and whether something should be done with it.
For greater visibility, consider the pairs in which the difference in the age is significant. For example, she is about thirty, it works, tastefully having fun, bright and mobile, but the relationship with peers or older men do not add up. Her chosen one was barely overwhelmed in twenty - quite another boy, and he feels the same. They have sustainable relationships, they are good and interesting together.
Now look at this couple more closely. What did our heroine moving when she chose his lover? Most likely, the reason in its insufficient psychological maturity. It means that she was not fully figured out that she was a woman, why she, as a woman, needed in this world, what her opportunity, duties and what is their responsibility, or this knowledge is scared and she denies them. A man and a woman in a pair are different, but equal, in other words, this attracts like that, therefore, with the already established, formed men boringly and uncomfortable. But next to the boy, who only begins his becoming a man, she, at the very beginning of his formation of a woman, feels great. And this is, in fact, wonderful, because the main thing in a pair is love and development. If the partner and partner are not stuck in their psychological "childishness", and begin to symmetrically develop as a man and as a woman, then happiness does not avoid them!
Other story. She, let's say, slightly in fifty. She is attractive, a lot in his life, who had seen, a lot aware, wise woman. She has a novel with a man about thirty-five. What prompted her to create relationships with a man who is suitable in sons?
First of all, let's recognize that the heroine of this our story is a very high woman. At that age, when some others already call themselves grandmothers, she manages to attract, be desirable and interesting for men much younger than her. Unfortunately, men, according to statistics, earlier than women, finish their lives, and maybe it is that the men of her age or older, their male qualities equal to the female qualities of our heroine, could simply not stay at her surroundings. Approximately in this or a little older age men drinks, begin to root, lose energy and turn into old people. If a woman is not an old woman, then she will be bad with such a satellite, so she turns to the one who is still full of energy and life. She already knows how to inspire this man, she shares his wisdom with him, she is able to sincerely and unconditionally love and gladly fills his beloved energy to disclose its potential, the realization of his deeds and develop their relationships. As a result, it turns out quite a harmonious union.
And yet, a couple in which a woman is older - not that the most natural form of relationships. The fact that now such couple is becoming more and more, talks about problems with psychological adulthies in modern society. Men and women will later find out, why are they, for which they are capable of both men and as women, what is their power, and what path for their nature is completely unnatural, or deny these knowledge. Thus, all later, young people start an independent life, and the overwhelming majority of families built at a young age fall apart after several years, because the family is a lesson for mentally adults. Unlike physical birth, we are responsible for your mental birth, and this is always our choice - to live a happy life or not.