Our brain is designed in such a way that it constantly needs a feedback. So that he can perform certain tasks and be in a tone, you need to apply effort, and this is not always easy.
Anyone, regardless of his desire, every day knows something new, which is natural, because so many events happen to us! But we ourselves need to constantly strive for something new, so as not to stand still. You probably noticed that it's a little relaxed on vacation, let's say, I don't do anything about absolutely nothing - even the book in your hands is not taken - how it becomes more difficult to remember the information when you finish your vacation. Of course, a person needs to rest and unload the nervous system, but everything should be a measure.
Your opinion is not the only true
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Let's consider signs that make it clear that it is time to take up the mind in the literal sense.
Signs of degradation
According to the famous American psychologist, the following qualities are inherent in people who have already begun or stand on the verge of degradation:
Man ceases to make decisions
So people seem to be that they are just "another brick in the wall", as in the song Pink Floyd. They do not want to decide anything, because they are confident in their own failure, and that nothing will change in them nor in someone else's life. A rather dangerous state, as you can get under someone else's influence.
Basic needs
A person does not feel any desires, except for the thickening of hunger as usual and sexual. Forgot about sleep. These people work only for money, they are deprived of all kinds of ambitions. The opposite sex, they only consider as a subject to satisfy sexual needs, no more. If you notice a similar condition from someone from loved ones, try to "pull out" a person, offering it an alternative pastime, and not just a suit at the table.
severe relaxation prevents the thinking process
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A small circle of communication
People divide others on the dangerous and those who can be trusted. As a rule, such an attitude is formed after the unsuccessful experience of communication, or a person received psychological trauma in childhood, therefore, it is absolutely to all.
Their opinion is the most important
A person ceases to reckon with opinions other than his own. If you decide to argue to such a person, you are waiting for disappointment, because you do not "take care." But usually these people do not enter into any discussions. What for? They are right.
Is there a solution?
Sure. It is important not to give yourself to fall even lower, and for this it is worth a trunk:
First, never cease to learn something new, and for this read as much as possible. And try to cover such areas that previously managed by the party, we save with one artistic literature.
Get on your style. Do not make a cult from appearance, but try to always look like a hundred. This, firstly, will raise your self-esteem, and, secondly, make other people interest you.
Join the discussion. No, you can not in everything and always be right, admit the presence of your opinion from other people and take it. Yes, you can be with something disagree, but you do not need to bend your line, offending the feelings of others. Be also ready to recognize your wrong.
Take care of spiritual development. As we have already spoken, the presence of spiritual hunger makes us people, so striving to sink it with all possible ways. The trip to the restaurant is, of course, well, but best combine it with hikes at exhibitions or viewing of retrospectives.
recognize as much new as possible.
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Expand the circle of communication. You may have one childhood friend, but an adult person may not be enough. Throughout life, we are withdrawing connections, which is natural, so do not avoid new acquaintances, especially when a person himself offers friendship, perhaps it is he will change your life.