Its name is Asya: But the best name to her - the flame that was not, there is no, and there will be no one in com ... "- as if Marina Tsvetaeva wrote about her. Nastya Tsvetaeva - far descendant poets. But neither of his famous ancestors, nor even About the nearest relatives - parents - telling does not like. Raised the girl grandmother. So Nastya grew up very independent and at sixteen years he took his first adult decision - left why to live for a man. "I was very in love. I thought it seemed to me even It does not look in my direction. But somehow it happened that we began to meet and live together, and then got married, "I recalled Tsvetaeva in one of the interviews. Despite the fact that the chosen was twice as older Nastya, this marriage existed for five years. . The second, civil husband, the actress became Oleg Goncharov. With him, our heroine met on the set of youth comedy "Don't even think!" As she herself admits, at that moment it moved the desire to become a mother. The couple had a son Kuzma, but this Union was born des Arched. Nadav - the third attempt to arrange family happiness. For love, Nastya was even decided on moving to another country, although it was associated with many difficulties - both in a professional and personal plan.
Nastya, recently you have become a mom for the second time. How do you feel, your daughter?
Nastya Tsvetaeva: "We feel great! My daughter is for more than a month, and she, of course, the most charming and wonderful girl on earth. (Laughs.) My husband and I really wanted a daughter. After all, we already have my eldest son - Kuzma. "
You have previously told you, with how difficulty chose the name Sinichka. And what called baby?
Nastya: "Yes, no seems to be my son, I chose a name without much difficulty, but for the girl I had to compete. (Laughs.) We called her Esther. I initially wanted the name to be with a story, with meaning, because here, in Israel, this is paid to much attention. When you are present, you immediately ask: "What does it mean?" I first had such questions to hear such questions. And then I have penetrated the idea that the name should be not just a beautiful combination of letters, but also to carry the meaning. For the first time I thought about the name of Esther, you will not believe in connection with the singer Madonna. It's no secret that she is fond of Kabbalah, often comes here, to Israel, to the Kabbalistic Center. And her religious name is Esther. It seemed very beautiful to me. The meaning of this name is "hidden." In the Bible, Queen Esther is devoted to a whole book. She possessed outstanding external data, but its internal, hidden qualities were even more beautiful. By the way, my husband offered to call a daughter to a more international manner - Alexander, Maya, Tamara. But after he made himself during childbirth and saw that I had to go through (I had a very hard operation - Caesarean section), said: "Call her at least shimon!" (Jewish male name. - Approx. Auth.)
Does he help you care for my daughter?
Nastya: "Yes. While we have no nanny, all concerns on our shoulders. Having been a very good father, and I do not know how to cope without him! Although over time I have to return to work, and then we will resort to the help of nannies, but while I get great pleasure from communication with the baby. "
How do you think to whom she looks like?
Nastya: "To myself. In it you can guess my features, and the features of the husband, but there are no one hundred percent similarity with any of us. She took all the best from us. (Laughs.) And justifies your name - True Beauty! "
Kuzya is not jealous of younger sister?
Nastya: "Well, except that a little more than usual, trying to attract my attention to my attention. But he loves his sister. I try to help me in every way: Esther bathes with us, it strokes her head when she is hitting, brings me something when my hands are busy with a girl or when I feed it. Recently looked at her for a long time and carefully, and then says: "I like it!" Of course, asks to hold her on his hands or change the diaper, but I don't allow him yet, although I think that when it is growing, he will learn to cope with these challenges. And recently, he even composed a song about his sister, who began with words: "Karaupusik ate the Arbusik."
How do they get along with nadav?
Nastya: "In this matter we did not have any problems ... Kuzya - a sociable boy, nadavy loves children very much. And children love him in response. So they quickly found contact. Kuzya was easily mastered in a new country. Children are simpler than adults. We moved here when he was three years old. So for him it did not become some kind of psychological trauma. And now the son is already a semoklas-juice. Speaks in Hebrew and English, and he, of course, appeared friends - his classmates. "
Your relationship with Nadail began as a conventional resort novel. Did you immediately understand that he is your person?
Nastya: "Yes, it was love at first glance, and completely unexpected. But from the very first days of communication, I felt that I would like to continue, despite the fact that we live in different countries. With myself, we went to visit each other, talked on the phone, on Skype, and in a year of such a lifetime, they decided that there was no longer - it's time to go. Well, or part. Since the second version did not suit anyone, we decided that I was moving to him, in Tel Aviv. "
Anastasia Tsvetaeva: "I never sought anything in the Union with a man. I just fell in love, and then everything happened by itself. " Photo: Gennady Avramenko.
And there was no doubt: Do I do?
Nastya:
"Of course, doubts were. But how can you find out until you try? You can guess for ten years, correctly or incorrectly. "Have you changed during the time you live together? How was the trigger of characters?
Nastya: "Oh, this is the topic for a whole book ... It is very difficult in two words to describe the problems of the difference between mentalities and characters. Treading comes from any couple, even if the spouses rose in neighboring courtyards. Everyone has their own habits, views on life, complexity and ease of character, which need to somehow "revenge" with another person. And with Nadail, and we are also talking in different languages. There is a whole bouquet of problems and nuances ... Of course, the first time was not easy, but we already live together for three years, and therefore won not one victory towards mutual understanding. When there is love, all problems can be overcome. "
Do you communicate in English?
Nastya: "Yes. For the third year, I am attempting to study Hebrew with an increase in Hebrew, but it is somehow not given to me. The daughter will grow up, and I will teach the words with her: a kitten, a dog, a ball. (Laughs.) Although they say that Hebrew is quite easy, for me, it is better to learn three European languages. But, I hope, someday all his Obia. "
How did the family of Nadava take you? In Jewish families, the traditions are usually strong and the word mom for the son means a lot.
Nastya: "Rather, this is the image of a Jewish mother, which we know from folklore and jokes. Each case is individual. After all, it is impossible to say that in Russia all people are the same - alcoholics and loyards. I am against generalizations and stereotypes, although it is certain that every nation has its own. As for my spouse, he is very independent and did not ask the opinions of the parents when he began to live with me. I assume that initially his mother and dad dreamed of another daughter. But they accepted us with the Kuzey very warm. We fully normally communicate with them, go to visit each other, celebrate local holidays. In general, everything, thank God, without problems on this front. " (When it came about the wedding, it turned out that young people could not get married, as Anastasia is a Christian. True, in Israel, marriages enclosed in the Czech Republic or Cyprus are recognized. Therefore, the lovers decided to get married in Prague. The wedding ceremony took place in the castle of Kinsky. A After that, the newlyweds ride on the Bentley fifties and dinner in the restaurant. There was no one from the festival. - Approx. auth.)
The question of faith is principled for you?
Nastya: "My husband and I are not unreligious. Although belonging to different confessions, do not fill on it. Having noted, not an orthodox jew with paisas and in a pile. He is an ordinary secular man. We celebrate our and Jewish holidays. We try to observe the traditions: when it is necessary - Kulich stove, when you need to eat Matsu and apples with honey. "
And you will raise a daughter in the traditions of Judaism?
Nastya: "Esther though born in Israel, the Jewish is not considered here, since her mother is Orthodox. I will not baptize it either. When the daughter is growing, let him decide who she wants to be. For us with her husband, this question is not appropriate. The main thing is that it is healthy and happy. "
Did you easily be mastered in someone else's country?
Nastya: "I still have not got used to ... Moscow and Israel are two diametrically opposite peaces, gestures, mentality. Difference in everything! It is very difficult to list on points, but what aspect of life is neither take, it will be two extremes of the same phenomenon. Israel is a very specific country. Here you read right left and there are no vowels. The day begin and end with the sunset, and not at midnight. The first working day is Sunday, not Monday, as is accepted by almost all over the world. There is no new year here, and on January 1, instead of snow outside the windows "perfect" palm trees. Sad without a New Year tree ... The first time I was very annoyed that on Saturdays all the shops are closed. Shabbat, Kashrut (although we do not observe all this, but it is around) - everything was unusual. Israel is like a small world separated from the rest, in itself. I am a non-religious person, but you have to adapt to the traditions and customs of the country in which you live. "
But do you like here?
Nastya: "In any country there are plays and cons, but in general I can say: yes, like it. Here the sea, the sun all year round, fruit vegetables, the child - the detriment! Despite my Sudobu, I gourmet and love to eat well, and Israel is one of the most "delicious" countries of the world. Here are very beautiful men. (Laughs.) Although for me at the time of moving to Tel Aviv it was, to put it mildly, irrelevant (I went to my beloved), nevertheless, from aesthetic point of view, it's nice to admire the male beauty. All my girlfriends who came to visit us are noted. There is very relaxed and at the same time some surprisingly creative atmosphere. So yes - I feel comfortable. Although this does not mean that I do not miss Moscow. Very bored! For friends, by smells, for childhood memories, on holidays - all over. I only saves what I often come to Moscow for shooting. And so I can't understand people who lost their homeland and left for emigration, knowing that they would never be able to return (I mean Soviet times). It's very hard!"
How do Russian emigrants relate to Russian emigrants?
Nastya: "This is part of the country's history, there were several emigration waves from Russia. And Israel was originally built on the manner of the communist state. Until now, the so-called kibbutsa remained - by the type of our collective farms. True, now they are somewhat modernized. So the influence of Russia is very strong, a third of the population is Russian. Although the attitude towards representatives of our nation is the same as everywhere abroad: it is considered if Russian is necessarily an alcoholic and a rowdy. (Laughs.) The Russian Community is very developed here - there are Russian newspapers, magazines, TV channels, shops where you can buy products that are not sold in Israel in ordinary stores. "
With Maxim Vitorgan, Tsvetaeva starred in the film "Masha and the Sea". Photo: Gennady Avramenko.
In terms of work, did you try to find something?
Nastya:
"Initially, I had such ideas, but they quickly crashed about severe reality. I realized that I was much easier and more correctly to continue working in Moscow, and not try to start here from scratch. First, I do not know the language, and even if I will teach it, I can not get rid of the accent. At the time of the move, I was twenty-seven, I was already my mother - to run like a girl, on castings advertising somehow uncomfortable. Among my friends a lot of Russian actors. Having lived in Israel for fifteen years and highlighting the language, most of them still play Russian killers and prostitutes. It's one thing when this happens in Hollywood, Mecca of cinema, where there is hope for a great success, and completely different - in tiny Israel, where six million people live. In addition, the acting fees here are much smaller than in Moscow. So even financially to me is more profitable to play in one Moscow project per year than in five Israeli. "You still have a design ...
Nastya: "Yes, this is such a sublimation of undistressed creative energy. In my first pregnancy, I released a collection of evening dresses for ladies in a position, and now I somehow suddenly bloomed my business design decorations. I really like to create decoration with your own hands. I was getting fascinated that I even opened my online boutique. So pleasant maiden hobby turned into a small business, which even brings me a profit - on shoes. (Laughs.) A flea market is located next to our house in Tel Aviv, and there I draw ideas. I always liked Vintage, things "with a story", which got from the grandmother, - it really fascinates me. "
By the way, about grandmothers. I read that you are far descendant of Marina Tsvetaeva. Tried to ever write poems?
Nastya: "No. Even in the youthful years, I understood that with my surname write poems is just ridiculous. I was at all some kind of denial of Marina Tsvetaeva - I did not want to know her poems (although I liked the poetry). Not because he considered it a bad poet, I just wanted to distance yourself from this person. I dreamed of trying myself in the actor, on stage, and the question of kinship was very hard for me. I'm not going to make a chip and infoovod out of my last name, I want to be respected for the fact that I myself imagine. Later, already as an adult, I appreciated the prose of Anastasia Tsvetaeva, which was an excellent memoist, and the poems of Marina Tsvetaeva. "
Like your PraprabaBabushka, you are an emotional nature, fond of ...
Nastya: "Well, she is not a praprababushka, but, as they say, the seventh water in Kisel. And about emotionality - yes, sometimes even too much. "
And the first time married at sixteen years ...
Nastya: "Oh, it was so long ago, as if not with me, in another life. I would prefer not to delve into this story simply because it has long been irrelevant. It's how to wake ghosts. "
Was it your first love?
Nastya: "What else can wake up a girl in sixteen years old to live with a man? (Laughs.) He was for fourteen years older, something was for me a teacher of life. "
And how did you react to it?
Nastya: "I have accepted all solutions in life myself. At sixteen, it was already quite an adult, an independent girl. He dreamed of becoming an artist, entered the theater institute and worked as a courier. By the way, my "work experience" began even earlier, at fourteen years. I worked in the pre-election headquarters of Mikhail Gorbachev, when he ran into Russian presidents (few people remember). For a month, I paid a hundred dollars - a huge amount of time for my age. Naturally, I immediately went and lowered everything to a new wardrobe - jeans, red lacquer shoes and a men's shirt for four sizes more than mine. " (Laughs)
And where did you meet the first husband?
Nastya: "We met at work - a banal story."
And parted, because "grew up" from the relationship?
Nastya: "Probably. It is necessary to ask psychologists. "
You have all the relationships have been long enough. And the second marriage, with Oleg Goncharov, lasted four years.
Nastya: "This is the father of my child, yes, but he was not my husband. I'm just talking about the relationship that is frozen, I do not tell. And so I am a normal, ordinary girl. I had novels, and hobbies. " (At one time they wrote about the nastya nastya with a colleague on the workshop Andrei Chernyshov. - Approx. Aut.)
With Andrei Chernyshov, Nastya was shot in the painting "Bitch for Champion." They wrote that with the actor, not only official relations are associated.
Father Kuzi easily let him go to Israel?
Nastya: "No, naturally, everything was not easy. And so far we have friction on this. But when Kuji vacation, he goes to Moscow, mainly because of his father. "
You have already had the experience of a serious relationship. What are you looking for in Union with a man?
Nastya: "I have never been looking for anything in the Union with a man. I just fell in love, and in love with me. (Laughs.) And then everything happened by itself. "
How long do you intend to sit on the decree?
Nastya: "I will decide on circumstances. While I feed the breast and Ideally would like to feed up to the year, as it was with a senior child. But if I receive a proposal, from which I can't refuse, then, apparently, you will have to somehow break away from my daughter, although it is not easy for me. "