Some for quarantine found their love, the second broke up with a loved one, and thirdly divided distances with the chosen one. And well, if you live in a pair of kilometers from each other and probably managed to go for the time of self-insulation. Many, who are divided by the borders of cities and even countries, this situation forced to rethink the relationship due to the apparent hopelessness of the situation. And although it is still almost impossible to get out of Russia in previously open countries, still there is hope - sometime it should end, and you will repaid your loved one. In the meantime, keep some tips that will help to cope with Apatia and support communication:
Eyes to eyes
The most difficult for many is not to have physical contact with the chosen one. Without hugs, kisses and sex live is really difficult, but perhaps. Realize that in such a situation you can recreate the sensations in other ways. Ask a boyfriend to send you his sweater, sprinkled by perfume, from which you go crazy. Call each other by video call, talk on the phone, write down your head messages. Send an air kisses, fall asleep together behind the conversation: Believe me, all this helps to keep a stable psychological state.
Without physical contact the most difficult
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Surprise every day
Now you can not walk together in a restaurant and hang on the waterfront with a glass of wine. But there is a lot of other ways to please the chosen one, and it is a happier to him. Collect each other Parcels with cute gifts that resemble different stages of your relationship, write hand-made letters, pay pleasant surprises - from colors for a girl to a certificate for massage and delivery of your favorite food to the house. A person who does not care do not always find a way to raise you a mood.
Try to save a positive attitude and believe in the best
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Do not stay alone
It is important to adapt to new conditions - for sure you have already done it, having resigned with the inevitable situation. Take time with friends and family, keep up each other with your loved one. Learn to recognize your emotions and soothe yourself, distracted by the problem or disassembled it in the subconscious. This is the time to verify the strength of your relationship and, unfortunately, most of the pairs do not pass. Nerves at the limit, claims appear to each other - often one person surrenders and believes in the inevitability of parting, and the other leads to the horror of the loved one. If you understand that you do not cope, go to a psychologist: In this situation, the doctor's help is necessary.