When we hear about Franzow, unwittingly remember unfortunate young people from youth comedies, where the guy is unsuccessful in love with a girl who considers him just a friend. However, in real life there are quite a few inverse situations where the girl is already on the "reserve bench".
It is quite difficult to move to a new level of relationship with a person who does not show interest to you as a woman, but nothing prevents you from trying to change the situation. We will tell you the five most effective ways to force your friend, for which you imperceptibly sigh, look at you with other eyes.
You are not a "vest"
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He should not consider you a friend
Unfortunately, friendly relations are on the way to relationships of a close character. Initially, Frendzon does not imply friendship in the usual understanding, because the differences between you are too large, starting with gender and ending in a lifestyle. Only very few manifests a friendship between the sexes through the years, in most cases, you just have nothing to lose from such a break. But there is a chance to become for the ex-friend something big.
Stop it up
In the eyes of a man, submission to a woman is possible and considered normal only if we are talking about his mother, in all other cases, excessive guardianship will become a big obstacle to see the woman in you, which he wants to achieve.
You are not "vest"
Empathy is certainly important for any relationship, but when you begin to use exclusively as a subject of consolation, it's the way to nowhere. He tells you about his professional problems, quarrels with girls, and you have to listen to all this and console it almost constantly. At the same time, a man in this case is in no hurry to listen to your complaints - after all, he came to speak out and leave.
As soon as you understand that a person uses you, stop accepting the "Posterker" immediately.
Do not rush to the first call
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You should not be constantly in touch
Trying to cause the admiration of a potential partner, we often sacrifice our time and interests, but such compliance is almost never assessed. No need to throw all your affairs and run to solve his problems: let him understand that you are a person with my life, which is ready to help, but only those who do not sit on the neck. A man will begin to respect you first, and then will be interested, which may be more important than him in your life.
Do not let the "female" tips
Suppose he asks to help with a gift from a colleague on her birthday. You do not need to immediately sit with him at the table and discuss, and what can I like this woman at all. With your help, you will only contribute to its possible rapprochement with another woman. Do you strive for this? He will certainly have a para-triple of male colleagues with whom they can solve this issue and without your participation.
Stop being him another
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