The main heritage of the Roman believes the family - his wife and daughter. He is a loving husband, a caring father. For twelve years of marriage of their feelings, only life wisdom appeared, so necessary in family relations. By the way, the history of the famous athlete is a decent answer to skeptics who claim that serious feelings and strong family unions cannot be born in young years.
How did you meet?
Roman Pavlyuchenko: "My parents and I moved to the neighborhood of the Moscow city of Cherkessk, and I went to a new school, where I met Larisa. In general, there were only two schools in this town, and I was lucky that I was just in the one in which you need. "
Larisa Pavlyuchenko: "I studied in the sixth grade when Roma came to us. The only loose place was next to me, and the teacher put us together. So our first meeting took place. "
Remember what impression did you make each other?
Larisa: "Roma was light, with stunning blue eyes and a charming smile. I was very interested with him to communicate: who he, from where he came to school, what he was doing. And somehow it happened, we began to be friends. "
Novel: "As far as I remember, Larisa and her son-twin sister immediately rushed into my eyes. They both stand out on a general background - high, beautiful, bright. There are people who involuntarily attract attention to themselves. Sisters are just from such. "
Was it the first children's love? I spent the house?
Larisa: "No, we lived in different areas. There were no hints on the novel, we just were friends. Although in school, for some reason we were considered a pair. And already in two years, we began to go to the movies, walk, went to nature. But I, honestly, did not understand that Roma in love with me and I myself feel like feelings. "
If not a secret, novel, and why did you choose exactly on Larisa, and not on her sister?
Roman: "In fact, initially I really liked Larisa - beautiful, smart, charming. But there was already a young man for her, so it can be said, I was not left. Then I tried to show interest in the world, but she immediately made it clear that she was only interested in studying and new friends she was not needed. In addition, the sisters studied well, and I am so so. Therefore, I did not make any interest in Svetlana. And I decided to wait for Larisa, and now I was waiting. "
Larisa came to his beloved in Stavropol, where he studied in the sports boarding school. Photo: Personal archive of Pavlyuchenko family.
And you did not try to fight with the opponent?
Roman: "No. It would look ridiculous at that time. He was older than two, high. Girls, as a rule, are interested in older guys. Yes, and I was then small, her shoulder. This eventually began to grow. It seemed to compete. I waited patiently when Larisa dispels with that guy and the opportunity to attract her attention. True, Larisa and then did not understand that I was in love with her. Of course, tried to care, gave gifts, but she perceived everything as friendly gestures, no more. And it seemed to me that my feelings are so understandable, without words. "
Larisa: "By the way, that high school student just cared for me, we had no relationship and could not be. I was a child - only twelve years. Although that young man himself jealous of me to Roma. And every time I tried to move it to the background. "
Sisters are very similar to each other? Never confused them?
Larisa: "We are with light different in nature. Maybe therefore she had her girlfriends, I had my own. Although externally we are really like two drops of water. "
Novel: "And the voices are also similar. Visually I began to distinguish them quite quickly, but I could not in my voice. Often I call, I hear in the Larisa tube, I begin to talk and here I understand that in fact the light came to the phone. But over time I learned to avoid this confusion. "
When did you realize that it is not just friendship, and a real deep feeling?
Larisa: "What he is in love with me, I understood for the new year. We celebrated this holiday by the tradition of the whole class. For the first time, we kissed the battle of the chimes. And after that they began to meet not as friends, but as a guy with a girl. And then in the ninth grade, he left to study in a specialized sports boarding school, which was in another city. I understood that it was very important for him and simply necessary, because he was always engaged in football and it was with him that he connected his future. And I lacked Roma. It was unusual that he is far and we do not see, we do not communicate. With his departure, my life has changed. Probably, at that moment I first and thought that our relationship was something other than friendship. Calls on the Intercorda cost a little expensive, so we wrote each other letters. I was looking forward to Westa from Romka and immediately answered him. "
Novel: "When I am going to leave, Larisa and sister decided to go with me. So let's say, spend. They did not say anyone, where they gathered: apparently, they did not calculate that the road is long - a few hours one way. Back sisters returned very late. At home they flew great. There were no mobile phones then, and the parents were noticed, breaking his head and experiencing where children could disappear. "
Larisa: "Then somehow how Mama Roma told me that he spoke to him on the phone that his mood was bad, he misses him very much, and suggested with her to visit him in the boarding school. Of course, I agreed. We did not have any confessions in love, as in books and films, since there are situations when everything is clear without unnecessary words. "
Remember how Roman made you a sentence?
Larisa: "It is impossible to say that he made me an offer. We simply decided to get married together. Then I studied in Stavropol on legal, and Roma played in Volgograd. I often went to him. My parents were not against our relationship, but they did not like that I am moving there and here. "
Novel: "That's when we decided to get married and live together. Although, to be honest, I still before that I realized that Larisa was just that the most woman with whom I would like to live your whole life, create a family. "
While Kristina is the only child in the family. But the couple plans to appear another baby. Photo: Personal archive of Pavlyuchenko family.
It turns out that you, Larisa, for the sake of your beloved challenged the institute?
Larisa: "No, I have done myself, the diploma received. After all, I dreamed of becoming a lawyer since childhood. But I didn't have to work in the specialty. Family, house, frequent moving from place to place ... And then daughter was born, and I also began to study the child. But I think, over time, I will still go to work. "
Novel: "And I would not want it. I will try to provide a family in the future so that my wife does not work and my family never needed anything. "
But women sometimes try not to work due to financial problems, but for the sake of self-expression ...
Roman: "I still don't want Larisa to engage in professional activities. Maybe my position and will seem selfish, but it is important for me that my wife is next to me, with my daughter. Well knowing her, I understand that she will not be able to work in prison, it is characterized by a complete self-dedication. So that it makes it, always lays out all the hundred. And this means that I will see it less often. I would like everything to stay as now. Let her always be next to me. And returning home, I hope to always take it from our family hearth. True, I don't consider Larisa from something right, I can only ask. "
It is said that your wedding was not very smooth ...
Larisa: "We had a wonderful wedding, but there was a man who wanted to spoil us a holiday. The fact is that when Roma played in Volgograd, he had a yaraya fan. I then lived in another city. And this girl came up with something, imagined the possibility of mutual love with Roman, tried to rush to him. Then, when I arrived, she, apparently, realized that she had nothing shining here, but instead of leaving us alone, began to make smallquail. Otherwise, you won't call it. She appeared at the wedding as a girl of one of the Romine Colleagues on the team. He behaved disgusting, defiantly, told various nasty. When she was asked to leave, she did not respond. In the literal sense, the word had to put this maiden over the door. In general, the lady is strange. She even tried to stick to my mother-in-law, but he also quickly received hands. "
This is already fanaticism ...
Larisa: "Yes. Roma has a lot of fans, and I do not think it is bad. But I do not understand those girls who begin to build some illusions, write all sorts of absurd about me on the Internet: "I don't like Larisa Pavlyuchenko. She is such a Siakaya ... "First, I should not call some feelings from them, and secondly, how can I voice it, if they absolutely do not know me? At first I was unpleasant to face such outpounded, and now I am indifferent to them, I just do not pay attention. "
Maybe it's just a manifestation of jealousy on their part. And you yourself were jealous of the novel?
Larisa: "He never gave me reasons. In addition, I trust my husband and I know that he will never let me down. "
Novel: "In general, this is only from the outside it seems that being a football player is easily and very cool. In fact, this is true work. She has to adapt to the rhythm of my life: she walked for me and in different cities of Russia - as an officer's wife, and went to London. Plus, my character is not a gift if something does not work - psycho. She carries a lot on their shoulders. And I will be in her place, I probably would have shot himself. And Larisa never complains how hard it is, and does not indicate how much she has done for me for me and for our family. "
Although the photo in the photo looks like a rocket rocker, he never drove a motorcycle. Footballers are prohibited, as well as skiing and skating. Photo: Personal archive of Pavlyuchenko family.
You got married in 2000, and the daughter was born only in five years. Didn't you want to give birth to children right away?
Larisa: "We wanted, but at first did not work. First, we were nineteen years old, and secondly, I still studied. Yes, and you need time to elementary to get on your feet. You know, they say everything is their time. The fact that I am pregnant, I learned the thirty-first of December. We just prepared to go to the New Year's party to friends, I was already going. And then I think - you need to do a test, but I constantly postpone. As soon as the results it became clear that I was in a position, weakly fell on me. I understand that it sounds ridiculous, but I fell on the sofa, and it seemed to me that the head was spinning, and it was hard to move, and then all possible symptoms of pregnancy began to feel. In short, we decided not to go anywhere and met together at home. "
Has her husband was near, when her daughter was born?
Roman: "No. That day I had a very important game - the question of the release of the "Spartak" in the group stage of the Champions League (Pavlyuchenko, at that time he played for this club. - Approx. Auth.). And when I left home, everything was fine. As they say, nothing foreshadowed. "
Larisa: "Then the contractions began, and I went to the maternity hospital. Romka did not call. I understood how important this match is, I did not want him to be nervous. "
Novel: "That day we won 2: 1. And I scored a decisive ball. Returning from the field to the locker room, I began to call my wife, and she does not answer. When I could not get through to her for half an hour, I had already begun to worry, I understood something happened. About the fact that Larisa in the hospital, I was told by her doctor, and I immediately went to my wife. "
Men tend to dream of sons ...
Roman: "And from the very beginning I dreamed about my daughter. Of course, if the boy was born, too, would be extremely happy. But daughter is something special. Double Happiness. I would not refuse to and for the second time we were born a girl. "
Would you like replenishment in the family?
Larisa: "Yes. Christine is now six years old. And you can already think about the second child. In any case, we have such plans. "
And who is more like her daughter - on dad or mum?
Larisa: "On both. And externally, and in character. Just like me, she learns with interest, diligent, dying. In the dad went by activity, emotionality. "
Novel: "If something does not work, it reacts very violently. This is exactly in me. "
Does your daughter watching football, is sick for you?
Roman: "Yes, as long as. It happens, I come after the game home, and she shows me gestures that I celebrated my goal. I ask: "How do you know?" And Christina replies that he watched the match on TV. If our team wins, daughter rejoices, congratulates. When we lose, she tries to support. He says: "You can not only win all the time ..." In his six years, she finds the words of consolation, which truth help to cope with bitterness of defeat. "
"We are married to Larisa twelve years, and familiar - eighteen. I have the impression that we all together, almost from birth. And over the years, feelings are only stronger. " Photo: Personal archive of Pavlyuchenko family.
And with Larisa discuss past matches?
Roman: "Yes. She often goes to the stadium to root or looks at the game at home. And then in the evening we analyze what was right and what is not. Sometimes I'm even angry with her, because it is always easier to evaluate from the side, sitting on the podium than in the midst of the game itself on the field. But I understand that the impartial words of wives most often are fair. We must give her due: she knows how and the bitter truth is to say, and maintain in a difficult moment. In general, I think that reasonable criticism is more important and more important than creating illusions. "
Larisa, you often have to hear how your husband scold? How do you react?
Larisa: "As a rule, this happens when people do not know that I am the wife of Roman Pavlyuchenko. If the case claims are expressed, it is still acceptable and understandable. But this happens rarely. Usually scold at groundless. So, quite recently, I went with a girlfriend in a taxi, the driver fell out the talkative and said just on a football theme. Get both Roma and his colleagues. The reasoning was reduced to the fact that football players are huge salaries, and they do not want to play, they only walk and drink. And so, they say, they have nothing to do: well, once a week, or even less often, run around the field ninety minutes - and that's it. And he told this driver so that it seemed the impression as if he knew the topic from the inside, and not at the break. "
Did you tell him that you are a football player's wife?
Larisa: "No. And why? It is silly to explain to the person that he is mistaken and in fact, everything is not so simple, as it seems to him. Reality is polarly different from the presentation of many. Matches go on schedule, but training daily. Therefore, I see my husband less likely than my wife's wives engaged in other activities. And if someone else after the change came home, relaxed and all the difficulties left at his workplace until tomorrow, then my spouse brings all this home. Analyzes, re-worn, thinks how and what to do next. We must also forget about injuries, and about health problems, which, happens, if a person is professionally engaged in sports. Being a football player is not as simple as it seems. And it's easy to condemn others when you did nothing like this. Believe me, you could take a little comments to the same taxis about how he leads the car is not perfect, and this is his bread, his profession. In a word, who I am, I did not say, but, naturally, I could not keep silent, began to argue and prove that his comments are unfair. However, as I assumed, he did not hear me. He like his own theory. "
Do you tell the novel about such meetings?
Larisa: "As a rule, I try to silent. I do not want to upset your husband. If the criticism was justified, I would voiced her at home. And so - why is someone else's empty eloquence transmit? Although we have now remembered negative statements and did not mention that there are also people who approach and speak good words, express their support. Thank you very much for thinking needed to do it. Including their words help to survive defeat and tune in to a new game, for future victories. "
Let's go back to the pleasant topics. Roman, how do you choose gifts wife?
Roman: "I love her to please something, and even more I like to arrange her surprises. True, it is not always possible to save it in secret. So, for example, I decided to give my wife a car. Long chose, was preparing, negotiated. Then he presented the car Larisa, she was very glad, and only after some time I learned that the surprise did not work out. According to my telephone calls, she guessed that I was going to do. And although the secrecy did not succeed, I am not in disorder, on the contrary: because it means that my spouse knows me very well. There is nothing wrong".
Due to driving, do not quarrel? As a rule, men do not like how their wives go ...
Roman: "The quarrel does not happen, but the comments are doing each other. If I lead the car, and the wife is near, she begins to talk to me how to act in a particular road situation. In this case, I say: "Stop! Behind the wheel now I am! "And on this dispute ends. But, I repent when Larisa acts as a driver, and I am a passenger, I also begin to teach it how it is better to rebuild, where to turn. She answers me by my own words: "Stop! Now I'm driving! "And I silent. And this is right: who taxes, that and right, and the extra tips only distract from the road. "
But in general, the quarrel in your family happens?
Larisa: "I would not say that we quarrel. Conflicts, of course, are like in any family. Or maybe they are even smaller, because we are used to listening to each other and discuss everything. Therefore, before the quarrel, we simply does not reach. "
Novel: "It happens sometimes I begin to shout if something happened not as I would like. Larisa wisely listens, and then, when the glow of passions falls, expresses his opinion. "
Often, the son-in-law tells jokes about their mother-in-law. And how do you, novel, are relations with Mom Larisa?
Roman: "I have a gold mother-in-law! I love her very much, and she answers me the same. This manifests itself in everything. When we're going with my wife to visit her parents, I have no doubt that the mantans will definitely be on generously covering the table. She knows that I love them, and therefore, no matter how busy is, for me she will do them. She loves me to indulge. "
Larisa: "I, unlike many daughters, with my mother-in-law is also complete mutual understanding. She is a wonderful person, and both we love Roma. But it seems to me that everything happened exactly that, and not otherwise it also bes because it treats me sincerely, kindly, gentle, like a daughter. "
Who makes decisions in your family?
Larisa: "together with joint efforts. We try to look for ways together: I come to consult Roma, he - to me. Not so many situations when you have to solve something alone. "
Novel: "In fact, I am capable of spontaneous, impulsive solutions, and I accepted them, which often regretted. Larisa is another man. First of all, it weighs all the "for" and "against", looks at the root of the situation, is trying to predict, something or otherwise can lead, so it, with its thoughtful solutions, rarely falls. Now I try almost all the questions to discuss with my wife before giving my answer. She is far from and rarely mistaken. In addition, we have one family, and therefore some interests. "