Women themselves initiative themselves, first get acquainted or, looking at themselves for a man, invent complex plans, having completed that the man makes an impression, allegedly he himself became the initiator of dating. Having become trying to manipulate and control the situation to "end - the crown case", that is, so that the wedding is guaranteed to take place.
It has already become the norm not to sail downstream, wait, hope and believe that sooner or later he decides on something, and take everything to control so that the relationship is constantly developed and the couple moves in a certain direction, namely towards the registry office. For efforts to be as efficient as possible, the girls study the match, attend various trainings, analogues of pickup trainings for "boys". Women are taught on them to the art of seduction and clamping of the groom. Also, a huge number of literature appeared on the shelves of bookstores, in which the tongue understandable for women is described by a primitive device of human female creatures and mechanisms for manipulation and managing them.
Similar topics are illuminated in women's glossy publications, and in men's gloss men warn about the hunt that opened on them and describe signs of the hunters who wish to marry and forever under one roof with a successful bachelor, taking not only his name, but also in turnover of his finance. So what to do? Such is modern.
Men practically learned to do without women, and women, actually, too. Only here it is not possible to get rid of the need for love, care, affection, stability and from maternal instinct. Of course, it is possible to conceive from the test tube, but this is some kind of accurate measure for a very desperate young lady, which is in pre-subsidiaous age and feeling the inexorable approximation of menopause. Therefore, despite the terrible stories of experienced about the horrors of living together and numerous divorces, people still continue to create couples, marry, hoping for the best or ... on a miracle.
And the fact that women have become more active and themselves choose a suitable partner, lover, her husband, so maybe it's not so bad? Save time and yourself, and men. Faster will come up, faster scatter, in case of an error, and in the case of "accurate hitting", they will quickly gain happiness.