Live hereby, and not cling to the past. In social networks now, advertising "go to the canal and find a video, forcing the former jealous". Such behavior in young girls who did not come from the age of Drama Queen can be understood. But what do adult girls think, have time to part already with one partner? In this material, forcing you to think about your mistakes and look at the situation otherwise.
"I spent the best years for him"
Stop evaluating life, as if the period from 20 to 30 years is the only valuable years. Yes, this is the peak of your physiological youth when you can become a mother. But how many modern girls think about it? Reproaches a man in time spent on him, you put in a stupid position. When entering into a relationship, you do not start a pet, which cannot be thrown out for the gate for Schroatiki, and you have to take care, even if it is explicable. You choose a man, and if 1-2-10 years have spent with an unloved, who did not fit your ideas, the wines in it lies with you alone. And at the same time, think about whether you did, deceiving the sincerely loving person - that and it!
Appreciate the years have passed, and not get rid of memories
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"I loved him, and he ..."
Sometimes you don't finish the relationship, but men with you. Survive such a blow to self-esteem when you really loved a person, not easy. But our advice in this situation is to let go of the situation itself. Think about how great that you had a partner who sought to respect your emotions and found the strength to admit that no longer wants to share the common life. Which more often it happens that the beloved disappear without a trace, because it is difficult for them to say that there is no love between you (and maybe never). This does not mean that you are a worthless person or have an ordinary appearance. Not at all! We can always explain to yourself why we want to part with the chosen one, but this is just because we understand - it does not suit us specifically.
"Either with me, or in no way"
Hearing such a phrase from a close girlfriend, I was not frightened ... And if you think, this is how many women say. Where does this feel of ownership come from? Parting, you do not give your favorite toy, but forgive with a person, a person primarily. In order to prevent such an error, first disperse with personal boundaries, and then find out about the borders of the partner. You should not step there, what is the red Stop sign. Respect the right of another to your own opinion, space and freedom of action. If you control your loved one, soon it will run away so quickly that the heels flashes. And yes, in his place we would also leave homely tyrana.
Stop being possession and release a person
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"More pays that I lost me"
This phrase is our favorite ... Girls and women, it's time to remove the crown from the head! I have no doubt that every one of you is beautiful. But if a man breaks up with you, then you are far from ideal for him. And even actions, after which you will ruin the relationship, talk about the same. Do not live in for the other: do not post after parting stupid quotations, provocative sexy pictures, photos in the company of other men. The one who had to spit on you to parting, they do not make up, alas and ah. Watting energy to the impression of another, you miss your own life. Believe me, it is not worth it. Gondo pass the lesson and move on.