Long time, we did not disassemble dreams. And here is such a rich example! To understand the interpretation of the dream, it is necessary to say a few words about the history of the dreams. It passes through a divorce, formally the process of this time for some time to continue, but informally, in her soul, divorce and parting with her husband and with such a huge concept, as a family with the future, began earlier than its official part. Our densidian works through all his thorns, but most importantly - meets all those experiences and states that fate takes her in connection with the new challenge in her life.
Those of you who passed through the divorce may not be able to recall the moments of rage, burns from offended, longing and deep despair from parting with a close person, as well as with their future as a partner and member of this family.
And now, when the lyrical retreat is done, sleep itself:
"Everything begins with the fact that I'm looking for something in the social network and suddenly I see that my long-time friend died. At this point I am at home (for some reason) in a two-story apartment. On the first floor, I see a glass flask from the floor to the ceiling, and in it - my friend with the name "Dead", died. I am captured feelings, misunderstanding, fear, shock. How so?! Why is I at home? And most importantly - I am absolutely powerless before this given and never, I can not do. Suddenly I hear the rustle and climb the stairs to the second floor of the apartment. I begin to remove the autumn leaves and water, at that moment a gray yard cat (I have no cats) Sunk through The dam, which I dream, and I hear the drops of water fall into the ringing empty silence. I run to the first floor, run up to the sofa and handed the wall, which turns out to be wallpaper. Behind the wall I see a whole big room, on the walls of old wallpapers, His rimmed plinths. But she was always behind this sofa. And I did not know! I move the sofa with one movement and see this gray cat and a cat with kittens. It turns out that they quietly live in my house, and I do not know. Moreover, and family started, children. I look at this new space in my I do not understand how it happened that 30 sq m were straight for the sofa. What is this repair? Why so happened? How I now do so that everything is beautiful, as I like. I woke up with my thoughts that a friend died, and I found a new room in an old house. Somehow it is connected. "
The first part of sleep is the news of the long-standing companion, who died, the flask with the inscription "Dead", the autumn leaves, the old wallpaper and the dilapidated apartment are the symbols of dying and the end of something. We remember that the dreams says goodbye to the important stage of his life, with him as a wife and companion, the whole prospect of his life, which herself outlined inside the ending family.
And the second part of the sleep is to find a room in your home with family cats. The cat is a symbol of care, softness, heat and sustainable love.
It seems to me that it symbolizes the process when she opened the room in his soul in his soul's house. There she kept the memory of the "cat", home comfort and warm family.
This dream is a turn of her healing.
I wonder what you dream? Examples of your dreams send by mail: [email protected]. By the way, dreams are much easier to express if in a letter to the editor you will write preceding life circumstances, but most importantly - feelings and thoughts at the time of awakening from this dream.
Maria Dyachkova, PSYCHOLOGIST, Family therapist and leading trainings of personal growth Training center Marika Khazin