Despite the rather active sexual life, only 10% of the female female population of our country are satisfied with the quality of sex. Most often, the girls explain intimate problems with the features of their body, although in fact the reasons may be many, including the case can be in a partner.
Problems with satisfaction specialists are divided into several large groups - psychological and physiological. Consider the most popular reasons in which many can learn themselves and take appropriate measures.
Girls begin to blame themselves without even understanding the problem
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Girl does not take her body
Beauty standards that literally throw us in face fashionable magazines and television programs, slowly, but surely kill the self-esteem of almost any woman. It comes to the point that women begin to see what is not really: imaginary completeness, short legs, a couple of stretch marks turn into the end of the world. As you understand, this problem is related to psychological, so instead of unnecessary diets and hugely discarded amounts on cosmetologists, girls with the problem of rejoicing themselves it is necessary to contact a psychologist, and a better sexologist who will work for the problem so that your intimate contacts do not turn into torture.
Try not to be distracted by extraneous thoughts.
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The girl knows nothing about his body
The second most popular cause is "sleepy" erogenous points. This most often happens to women who started a sex life late or sexual contacts occur extremely rarely.
In such cases, intimate gymnastics helps well, which stimulates the necessary muscles, take this issue seriously, "find out" yourself.
Girls seek to control
Another psychological "skirmish", with whom you need to fight, if you do not want to spend all my life in a sad unsatisfied condition. We think too much about how we look in one or another situation, which also applies to sex: instead of focusing on the process, girls think about their facial expression or on whether hair dispersed or not. Learn to let yourself go at such moments if the partner chose you, then you are arranged in all "images".
Your thoughts are far beyond the bedroom
Very difficult to throw household problems out of the head: we think about their solutions, even in a dream. Agree, it is difficult to focus on my man who is waiting for a response from you when the date of loans payments in the head.
Try to learn to switch at the right point: Leave all the problems behind the threshold of the house. As Scarlett O'Hara said: "I'll think about it tomorrow."
Your man is ready to accept you in any "images"
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You lack moisturies
Many factors affect the release of natural lubrication: since the lifestyle and ending with medication. But women prefer to accuse their own body, thinking that he was not all right with him and it was always. In this case, you will need consultation of the gynecologist, which will conduct all the necessary tests and put an accurate diagnosis specifically in your situation.
In the meantime, you did not eliminate the cause of excessive dryness, get the lubricant in the pharmacy in order not to violate the usual rhythm of intimate life.