Paraphrasing the famous song from the famous movie: "If you do not have a family, she is not scary scandals ..." I want to continue: And if there is a family?! The most that neither there is a real family, that is: husband (perhaps even two, with former), children (perhaps, not one), parents of the spouse, your parents, girlfriend with problems, friend - without these ... and all of them all Time for something from you want. What remains? Right! Take a teapot's pose and start throwing slowly. And this is at least.
But there is nothing to do. Family is also our support. For someone, financial, for someone sincere, someone generally rushes loneliness ... In the end, these are native, loved one! And do not forget that your working misunderstandings with the leadership that you bring home in the evenings literally in our eyes, they are worried with you. That is, it turns out and with it is hard, and without it - nowhere. Then maybe the problem is not in the family.
Yes, to make yourself listen to the whole evening about the Dynamo football club (Spartak, Lokomotiv, Zenit - I need to emphasize), in parallel, correcting the "JS" on the "zhi" in the school notebook and trying to see your favorite series at least one eye - really very difficult. Rather, even psychologically. According to the latest statistics, most women with a similar way of life are independent, smart, self-sufficient ladies (just like that, with a capital letter), not nanniki and mothers. No one makes every self-respecting woman climbing the altar of family sacrifices and with a tragic face there to fall on his side.
Learn how to dissolve in the family and do not lose it. And if you do not quite it turn out or not forces to figure out, a professional family psychotherapist is always ready to help. No, he will not solve your problems for you, but will help you find yourself finding out of them. Create conditions for you in which you can try to think in a new way, look at yourself for your life in a new way. In particular, family psychotherapy is a special type of psychological assistance aimed at harmonizing family relations. Communication with a psychologist contributes not only to preservation, but also to productive development of relations in the family. And yet - a little secret - according to the latest scientific research, the family is a very stable system with tremendous resources for survival and potential to change. So it's not so easy to fall apart ...
And in the end, those who surround you, like first of all you!
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