Find a couple on a dating site for many people the task of difficulty, despite the availability of almost any candidate you like. Of course, if you are in finding a meeting for one evening, with these dating sites coped simply fine, the problems begin with people who lay great hopes on the site, while waiting for "their destiny." Why is it not lucky for us? We tried to figure out.
High competition
If some ten years ago, the percentage of men and women on the site was approximately the same, today the share of men exceeds 60%, although in the past decade this figure was half smaller. Women just have a huge selection, and therefore stopping on someone one beautiful half does not hurry. In addition, the approach to relationship has changed: the men themselves no longer see the meaning in a serious relationship, they consider dating sites (or applications) as a way to spend the evening, about feelings in such a situation we are usually not going.
Reality can disappoint
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Non-compliance of expectations
Each of us wants to seem better than it is in fact, and the dating site is just the perfect place where you can pretend to anyone. Naturally, we are breeding those people who like us in all respects - correspondence and appearance, however, with the last item, disappointment is almost always coming: Men even if they have their own photos, have long been learned by female poses, and therefore you need to be ready for that that a new acquaintance may not be a copy of George Clooney, as you represented. Very often, this moment becomes decisive when meeting - a woman is disappointed and returns to the site.
Potential partner promises too much
Even if the man's photo really turns out to be a handsome, everything else, what he told you in the correspondence, may be "soap bubble". In the course of personal communication, it suddenly finds out that he is not top, but just a manager, just forgot to tell you. Lives in the suburbs, but "to the center of the hand to file", etc. All this is done only with one goal - to let the dust in the eyes of a woman, if only she agreed to meet. Such situations occur so often that women are simply disappointed in such a way of finding a partner and just throw their profile on the site.
Banal requests
Another stop factor for continuing is a simple appeal. Each registered woman almost instantly receives a dozen messages as under the copy: "Let's get acquainted", "Hi, beautiful", etc. And if the first five girl responds, then after some time, even at the requests of ordinary young people who do not miss Intimate "on Vébka", she will stop responding, thereby missing really interesting men.