From the letter of our readers:
"Dear Maria!
I am 37 years old. I divorced. I do not have children. Live alone. Some time ago I had a man. But he is very younger than me - he is 26. We are good together in all respects, including, by the way, intimate. And so, we recently spoke about marriage. But I'm worried about an unequal marriage, because we have too much difference in age, almost 11 years. In addition, I try not to talk about our relationships with girlfriends, I think all the time as age can affect our relationship? What would you suggest? Yulia".
Hello Julia!
In my opinion, if you see a potential source of problems exclusively in the age difference, then you have nothing to worry about. I hurry to inform you that there are even some benefits in this. Let's start with the fact that the most flourishing of male sexuality has to take 25-27 years old, and female - by 30-40. In this regard, you are ideal to come to each other, which is important for a young marriage. In addition, any difference between partners, age or some other, can be a positive factor for relationships: each of you will complement each other in something. You will never be bored. Try to imagine that you are absolutely the same. And where is the place of romance in such respects?
As can be seen, the oil in the fire also poured social stereotypes. Mol, young ... Marriage unequal ... nonsense! In any pair, there will be differences between partners, sometimes much more serious age, and in most cases it can be adapted to them. Many this turns out very successfully. The main thing is that you feel good together.
In general, constant reflections on the topic "Equal or unequal marriage" do not lead to anything other than discontent. Think that this person you have chosen for yourself.