One of the most unpleasant questions in the life of a woman - "When you already head your baby?" And not always this question is asked in a friendly tone, if a person does not receive a clear answer from you, there are advice from the category "and go there, and everything in such a spirit has been helped." We will analyze what to do in such an unpleasant, but very life situation.
It is impossible to force a person to silence and never again ask you similar questions, especially if this is your relative, but still do not be silent, otherwise you will continue to terrorize such questions, you are still silent.
Keep yourself in your hands
The worst thing to be done after a similar question - to break down or start outwarding, moving to insults. Self say that now you are not ready to discuss this question, as it is unpleasant, it causes an extreme degree of discomfort, but if a person is expensive to your society, he must filter the themes that he wants to discuss with you. In any case, be prepared for any reaction from the interlocutor and do not take offense.
Be prepared to repeat
Unfortunately, the cult of a durable and large family is so developed in our society, that the issues of replenishment in the family can not be avoided. There are few things that you have already asked to avoid this topic - not everyone is ready to accept the fact that someone can live a completely different life, not like his own. Be prepared from time to time to answer the question again and again. You can even prepare a pattern.
Be prepared to repeat
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Take yourself
Inappropriate questions deeply touch us only when we ourselves cannot take their own fortune. Our self-esteem very often depends on the opinion of our environment, with this you need to work tight and prevent your loved ones to influence your conceit negatively. If it is not possible to accept myself as it is, take time to visit a specialist, it is impossible to leave the problem, since over time you may have to seem to seem that something is not true with you, but in such a state it is very easy to get into dependent relationships .
But most people are still able to understand that some topics lead you to a negative state, which means the closest will not displays you with unnecessary issues, most importantly, to convey to the environment and do not wait for themselves.