Let's try to figure out how to stop constantly "gnawing" yourself and try to objectively look at your problems.
First you need to learn one thing, but a very important rule - there are no ideal people. They said Remark, place in the museum. And it is absolutely true! Everyone has its drawbacks, and the difference is only in relation to them. Someone, for example, is worried too much about this, and someone, on the contrary, does not at all pay no attention to it and gets pleasure from life. Instead of deficiencies in yourself, do not pay attention to annoying trifles, you need to quite a few time for a couple of hours to realize that your business is not so bad, writes tata.ru.
First, it should be understood that the complexes are your real enemy. They can interfere in any business, starting with work and ending with a personal life. There is no uncertain person in himself immediately: it is given uneven posture and looking into the floor of the eye. Only one thing can be said about him: he is so much disturbed by the external flaws that there is no life, no fire in the eyes. But the worst thing is that life is spoiled to you at all, and you yourself. Reasons for experiences, in fact, not so much. Each disadvantage can be removed, if not in dignity, so in the highlight for sure.
Where to start work on with you. First of all, you need to love yourself. Love such what is. Of course, our nature is arranged so that we will compare themselves with other people. But it is not worth doing this, because there is always the one, who has a longer legs, and a smile in the corner, and the hair is thick. But on this, after all, life does not end ... Surely, you also have a reason for pride. And not one.
For example, I have the complexes about the appearance have appeared in deep childhood. In the garden, I was teased for the moldingness that I, by the way, could not be corrected, despite the many years of diligent classes with a speech therapist. In school, for Schcherbnka between the teeth, thanks to which all my youth photographs were abounded by a stretched smile "without teeth." I lived with this set for years to 20, and then I realized that, by and large, it is not so important. After all, no one when communicating with me did not appreciate my "growl" nor teeth. And many familiar and at all find my "RRRRR" are sweet and sexy :) And everything is so accustomed to Shcherbinka that when, on the recommendation of the dentist, she had to be removed, everyone said that I had killed my personality. Here is another indicator that all our complexes are completely contrived!
Therefore, try to find the strengths in yourself, because there are simply no people who consist of some drawbacks. Conduce autotraining. Daily. For example, loud read the merits, more often approach the mirror and just smile yourself. And finally, take time to yourself and stop living for others. You also have our own interests and hobbies. Start respect yourself as a person. Develop. After all, the more advantages you have, the easier it will forget about the shortcomings. In the end, just deal with the correction of your flaws. Not too beautiful hair can be treated, short legs visually lengthen the heel, extra kilograms-remove in the gym. From psychological complexes to get rid of course, not so simple, but also possible. The most important thing here is not to forget that the wedge is knocked out by the Wedge. Work on yourself and do not listen to others.