Probably everyone heard about libido, but far from everyone knows that it is a sexual desire. We will try to figure out.
Everything is much more complicated than just sex
Our body is an incredibly complex system. It is very difficult to achieve the harmony of physical and mental state, so there are such situations when you can have sex, but do not want, or on the contrary, there is a desire, and the body fails. And that, and that situation is quite natural and happening more often than you think.
Race behind the high level of libido leads to the destruction of self-esteem
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What does "normal libido" mean?
Just as there are no two identical people, there is no consensus, which there must be perfect libido. No one can predict when it arises and how strong will be at one time or another. Very often it takes a lot of strength to get the mood to which you expect.
Race for perfect libido can lead to problems
Usually to the problems of a psychological nature. When a person sets the goal to become an inimitable lover, he is trying to achieve and support a high level of sexual desire, but over time the body begins to resist and as a result, the reality does not correspond to expectations that it is incredibly a lot of self-esteem.
You can have a different temperature with a partner
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You can not coincide with a partner with a partner.
And this is normal. Failure or sluggish agreement does not yet say that your favorite person has cooled to you: It is quite possible, he has to make more efforts to achieve the level of excitement that you consider quite usual, and for the other it may be rather rare. You need to stop condemning the partner if negative thoughts at his expense are still visiting you, otherwise there are simply not avoiding problems in bed.
Libido may change
Throughout life, our body is updated, a hormonal background is changing, which is one of the main factors affecting the level of libido. In addition, the reception of some drugs also affects the increase or decrease in libido. These drugs include antidepressants and contraceptives. Also a decisive factor can be mental disorders or serious chronic diseases, for example, diabetes.
Libido levels can change throughout life
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