Sometimes marriages are initially doomed to failure. And the point is not that you do not correspond to each other, you are a bad mistress or it earns little. The relationship is constantly interfering with the third - mother-in-law. And it is useless to fight her.
Cause №1
You can't never become more important for him. Better leave them together and find a less infantile man. Maybe it looks strange from the outside, but if they are so good, then why do you need to spoil your life? Mom will always do everything better, you just can not compete with it.
Useless to try to make friends with mom's husband
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My own father is a thin constitution, so my mother stuck his shirts to be better sitting. From his parents, he regularly returned to "bags", with rugged seams. Seven years she listened: "But my mother ...", until we divorced.
Reason # 2.
Her son is the only and unique man on all white light. A decent woman was not born - to get a confession of mother-in-law, you can never. Not so preparing borsch, do not know how to dare socks, and sleep half a day, instead of cooking lunch of three dishes. You will have to listen to the reproach constantly, and most likely they will be absolutely unreasonable.
All the best - son
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Cause No. 3.
I will not be able to re-educate him if the mother allowed him everything, then he will behave with you as well. For example, eat food cooked by a child or sit in transport while you stand with bags. He is accustomed to that in this world everything is done exclusively for him.
You never compare with her
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Do not expect that he will become an equal partner and a solid shoulder, which can be revealed in a difficult situation. On the contrary, you will rather hear the complaints and whims that he himself is bad. That is, you can only count on yourself.
Cause No. 4.
You will regularly stay alone, perhaps with a child, it is possible that without money. Cause Banalna: The mother-in-law will regularly root, and need the help of the son. Even if yesterday she, as a scrambled horse, perfectly plowed the garden, today she will then rise in pressure, and he runs to save her. And the fact that you are lying with the flu, it will be little worried. On the contrary, he will leave for a week, the other not to infect mom.
His mother always sick
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Cause No. 5.
Jealousy towards the daughter-in-law is a common phenomenon. But the mother owner has it especially exacerbated, because you are her rival. The mother-in-law will constantly configure her husband against you.
For her bad habits, she will not miss the sampling in the eye is not daughter-in-law
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All your decisions and deeds will be criticized - please yourself and do not take such a cargo as "Mamienkin Son."