"Hello Maria!
We are married to Nikolai very long, but we have serious problems. At least I myself relate to them seriously. My husband is a workaholic! At the same time, I can not say that he does not like me when we spend time together, I see his attachment and feelings. But it is worthily to be distracted to work - you will not reach, it begins to behave as if I am an empty place ... I somehow did not give any importance to the wedding, but today I am responsive for doubts: it turns out, we are so different. Do you think such differences may be a hindrance in relationships?
By the way, I myself also work, but, so to speak, for the soul ...
Natalia.
Hello, Natalia!
Do not rush to make such radical conclusions! You and your husband really in something different, like all the spouses. And it is absolutely normal. Very often, people begin to notice the differences in each other after the wedding, when the honeymoon ends and the need arises to adapt to each other. Apparently, your husband really loves you. He does not try to put you and work for different scales. Just work is also an important and valuable sphere of life for him. Trying to reach him at the moment when he is dealing with key issues for his affairs - not quite right. It is unfair and demanding some victims from him. It may worsen your relationship. Moreover, you knew about this propensity in advance. Just let him be yourself. This is the main secret of happy family relationships!