Unfortunately, there is no type techniques: click here, let's pull out, and everything will certainly work. Sometimes there is still disgust to the partner. To his body and different bodily manifestations. After all, sex is a bodily practice. Sex is so arranged that a man cannot control the erection if it is not. And a woman cannot control their excitation if it does not appear.
Vladimir Lobanov
It is even harder to suffer quite common in long-term relationships, when sex leaves, and jealousy remains. When accusations bloom, suspicion, control, resentment and claims, which, in turn, the possibility of the emergence of sexual arousal is completely killed. To fall into the guilt with shame and torturing yourself the question "that in me is not so" - in vain work. Better remember the classic pair of characters: a young lady and hooligan. Hooligan here is very not good. Where mischief, humor, lightness, where carnival mood and hooliganism, where spontaneity and excitement, where your energy and desires are, - your sex walks there. All this is poorly amenable to an organization and fits badly into an ordered, "right" life. However, sex with mistresses and lovers, too, not to say that it fits comfortably in the orderly, "right" life. Moreover, hooligan - he is really a hooligan. From here, a frequent female task of choice between one man, which in all data will be an ideal husband, but boring and not exciting sexually, and others, on which it is impossible to rely and with which everything is difficult, but for some reason sex is good.
Claims and passive aggression will only exacerbate the situation
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Hence the first, she and the last recommendation in the topic "Does sex after 15 years marriage?". There is if you succeed sometimes to hooligan together. How to hooligan, it is better to invent himself. But it is recommended to do at least because it is already in itself fools and fun delivered pleasure and improve the atmosphere in relations. And on the contrary, sex disappears when there is a lot of insult and passive aggression in the relationship. The simplest and understandable manifestation of passive aggression is a demonstrative silence. But the forms of passive aggression is an infinite set. It is not better to navigate the actions. Because everything is done exactly like this: "And I, and I anything ... Just silent, I just don't want anything." It is important to listen to feelings and sensations.