Judging by the number of letters that began to come lately, I see that the analysis of dreams was useful in everyday life.
Today, the dream of one of the readers will help us to figure out what prompts can give us subconsciously relative to such theme as sexuality and sensuality.
At one time, Sigmund Freud argued that sexual energy in each person is absolutely natural. However, in society, this topic is forbidden. About sexuality speak a little, bypassing the topic. Therefore, many of us know nothing about our own nature, have many sexual problems, prohibitions, and even with a loving partner are not able to relax.
Many women are not easy to feel sexy and desirable. Despite the external efforts, makeup, elegant things and thin heels, when communicating with men, they easily turn into timid, smooth and shy, or hide their timidity under mask independence and coldness.
In a dream, the protective mechanisms of our psyche weaken, and allow us to feel in fact more sexual and attractive.
Here is a dream reader who asked her subconscious to tell her about femininity and sexuality:
"The case takes place in the church where the service is coming. I dedicate a girl in some rite and should show her how to navigate the compass. But I can't do it, since there is little place and turn the fog. And I do not know how. The rite passes, I have beads, which during the rite had her, but I take them.
Later I'm sitting in a circle with my husband's friends and talking to them, realizing that it should not be among them. And we are discussing it. And I see a husband behind the glass, which fools with the other, as if drunk. And I tell them, looking at this picture that I will have my friends who will understand that I can be here. At this moment I see how a drunken friend of my husband grabs him and throws into the glass. And I scream: "No!". I'm scared! And already in half a vality I speak in a circle: "I should be where".
And now let's understand in more detail.
Sleep logically can be divided into 2 parts: "Church and the rite of initiation" and "Circle of friends of the husband".
There are several sleep symbols that it is easy to make an assumption: church and dedication rite. Sleep reflects that our reader must be the dedication to "feminine". Moreover, it should be able to navigate in this matter (symbol of the compass), but while the topic is in the fog and in everyday life for her little space. After the rite, she takes himself a symbol of femininity (beads).
If you do a brief conclusion, at this stage, the girl is going to let the maturity, finding the direction and the confidence that there is a woman, although while there is a lot of fog and little in this topic for a mature attitude towards our own nature.
The second part of sleep on how to be a woman among men. The heroine begins with what is discussing with men, which cannot be with them. Even pronounces the text that in her surroundings they will understand its nature.
Communicating with men, she can observe that they are aggressive, foolish, different. It is important to the image of a husband, because the frightening events are happening with him, after which the heroine says that she is in its place.
Probably, the main message is that the heroine passes its formation as a woman, but cannot truly use the power of his femininity and sexuality alone, but only being "in its place", next to a man.
Also, sleep can be considered in the context of the fact that sexuality and femininity is, on the one hand, something pure, ritual, special (image of the church). And on the other - aggressive, natural, instinctive behavior (company images, games and drunk fights).
Perhaps the dream reveals that the Balance has not yet been found in the soul between these multidirectional beliefs.
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See you soon!
Maria Zemskova, psychologist, family therapist and leading trainings of the personal growth of the Trading Center Marika Hazin.