Many parents rush to extremes: Some load the child with all sorts of circles in the hope of revealing the potential in one of the regions, others support the idea that the child "must live childhood" and give full freedom to his chad. However, in the first, and in the second case, the child may not have motivation seriously to do something. Let's try to figure out how not to repel the desire to the chosen activity at the kid.
Determine what your child is inclined
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Put the goal
The biggest mistake of parents is the lack of understanding, in which direction to move. Suppose your child at the same time visits a sports circle according to gymnastics, English courses, engaged in a music school and, among other things, you grow in it leadership qualities, prompting to show activity in class life. It is not surprising that with such a tight chart, the rapid psyche can give a failure, which is poured into a teenage riot when the child goes against your will.
How to proceed?
Find the strengths of the nature of your schoolchildren, and be sure to consider his opinion about where you are going to direct the child. His opinion should be decisive. If there are obvious ability to study the exact sciences, it is worth paying attention to schools with a mathematical bias and make every effort so that the child will achieve success in the selected area.
Do not impose your interests to the child
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Really evaluate the child
Of course, for any parent, his child is the smartest, successful and beautiful. At the same time, he necessarily has the ability to love his mother / dad, who in adolescence for any reason could not develop their potential. Remember when you realize your dreams with the hands of a child, he may face a reality that hurts the self-esteem, if the child has no obvious predisposition to this lesson, for example, Mom dreamed of a career of the singer, and now trying to promote his child, Which is neither hearing or voices. Think than it can turn into a weak psyche in case of failure.
Find a good teacher
So, you decided on the direction with which you agree and your child, then you can not do without a person who will guide the child in the right direction. There are many talented specialists, but not each of them is able to transmit knowledge, yet for this you need to possess special qualities. Therefore, it is necessary to look for a teacher, and not just a professional in your area. Consult with other parents whose children already go to classes to the selected teacher, as a rule, it is according to reviews that you can find your teacher who will give a push and will be able to give the necessary motivation, because if the teacher can not charge interest, it will be interesting to attend classes .
Choose one direction
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