Glafira Tarkhanova and Alexey Faddeev - a very beautiful young couple. Looking at them and watching relationships: fresh, lungs, gentle, in which there are a lot of laughter and irony, you will never think that these are parents ... Four children! No excessive seriousness, concern, irritation and even powerual. They are good together, here lives real love, where children are not a hindrance, but only the opposite. Details - in an interview with the magazine "Atmosphere".
- You have already passed several different age periods with children. Which one, in your opinion, is the most difficult?
Glafira: For me the easiest - infancy, because I am all controlling myself. And the most difficult thing, I think we have ahead - the teenage age of one son already begins, in two years in the next, and then on the list. The only thing I understand that their teenagers will be many, and they will have to solve all the questions with each other, some kind of cube Rubik should work out. And we will be near, one way or another, we are preparing for this (laughs), we are already experiencing.
Alexei: The eldest, even in conversations with Mom, understands that he is waiting for, is preparing psychologically. Children are all very different, and in character, and in the image of thoughts, and in interest. By the youngest (he is soon two years), however, so far it is difficult to judge. But we already see that he has another temperament. And everyone defends her interests, sometimes I have to ruin the situation. Even choose a cartoon to like and one and the other, and the third, very difficult.
Glafira: But we teach them to negotiate them.
Alexei: While it happens rarely. The eldest sometimes began to give way, can take a ipad or book and leave. Recently, while the roots were visiting grandparents, two medium looked at the American Western Cowboys. I did not expect that they would like them so much, they were delighted with the film. This is a fairly rigid men's story about how the boys avenged for the main character who killed gangsters. But the eldest, I think I would not like.
Glafira: In conflict situations, it would be easier to breed them around the rooms so that everyone watches what he wants, but you need to show them the mechanism how to negotiate. After all, this can happen among friends, colleagues. Very much, unfortunately, is solved through or nervous offensive disputes. It is not always bad, but someone must offer a compromise, conflict is not productive.
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Photo: Alena Poloshin; Photographer's assistant: Dina Zhilinskaya
- Alexey with such pleasure told about the film, he himself is wondering all this, a boyish. And you, the head, probably, not so much in common with the boys?
Glafira: No, why? We read books from my childhood. They can be with the heroines of girls, although they are interested in not the history of love, but a relationship with society.
- You have already four children, and that time you said that as the childbirth approached you, fear covered you. So maybe it's time to stop? Or is it ready?
Glafira: Wait and see. Fear is not the main thing, the time of time, this did not stop anyone, in contrast to the financial situation, the opinions of others and other things.
Alexei: Lion Tolstoy went to the monastery to the olden, asked permission to divorce his wife, because after the third child she was forbidden to give birth. He believed that children should be born in marriage.
- Head, you are very slim again. At the same time, Lesha said that he was still in what form you are that good and variety ...
Glafira: Yes, then a big wife, then smaller. (Laughs.)
Alexei: Everything suits me. Strange if someone from men bother on this.
Glafira: I bounce on this occasion. But, of course, a woman is more difficult to recover every time. This time everything happened not quickly, but I did not have time to do sports.
Alexei: This must be done gradually, any radical measures are reflected on health, in my opinion. The body is not in vain nature given a gradual set of weight, respectively, it should also go away.
- Lesha, and your boxing did not disappear from life?
Alexei: Not. I have been doing this seven years. And Ermolai carried away by boxing. And the elder honestly talked to me, explained that he did not want to be an athlete.
Glafira: He is fond of robotics, but regularly engaged in swimming. Says, the time will come, and go to the hall. And the third, proud, we did not strain much. He needs something like sports dances, he moves very well, such a small spider or monkey. They even have a body structure in all different. Ermolay is the strongest physically.
Shirt, bikkembergs; pants, 21dot12; Belt, Brioni.
Photo: Alena Poloshin; Photographer's assistant: Dina Zhilinskaya
- You have a new apartment - this is an event!
Glafira: Sure! Our first one's apartment. But we have not moved, it is a complex process, although the repair is almost completed. He left for almost a year. And before I myself did repairs, my mother, for example, glued wallpaper, they were all homegrown, just to cheaper and quickly.
- Alexey, and you are endowed with such talents, do you know how to do something with your own hands?
Alexei: If necessary, everything I can: and cook, and wash the dishes, and the floor. Once upon a time, in student time, I made repair to friends, and in the army too. But it is better to pay a professional.
- Head, you said that we practically do not prepare. And the kitchen of dreams, as you called it, will not spur to it?
Glafira: I am sometimes preparing, more often on holidays, because I almost never have a house. But not to say that I loved this occupation. There are places where I can be more productive at this time. (Smiles.)
- Senior boys help a little around the house?
Glafira: They still have their own interests, not home.
Alexei: But I periodically make the elders wash the floors and dishes for everyone. I try to teach it. Discipline is a man necessary. The senior makes "through the lip", the average - with pleasure.
- Lesha, you have never been a supporter that he spent the earliest time with children while they are small?
Alexei: I have never rendered such pressure. I know how the heel loves his work, and how difficult it will be sitting at home. It is active, sometimes even too. (Laughs.) If it has little work, it becomes very hard. It is necessary to such a schedule.
"And the fact that it doesn't just work a lot, but for a long time leaves with touring, you also don't strain?"
Alexei: I perceive it normally. I am a sane person, I know that we have for the profession. And we are constantly in touch.
Glafira: We are already accustomed to this. Although sometimes Lesha does not even know what city I am, but it does not matter, the main thing is that alive is healthy. I myself often do not remember moving. With Nikifor on the tour was fun, then it was not even to the phone. (Laughs.)
- Alexey, were you not against the earliest to take a very heavy trip of a two-month-old child?
Glafira: Lesha was not "for". (Laughs.) And he was greatly surprised when, still being pregnant, I reported on my plans. From the fact that he would be against, nothing would change. I took responsibility for myself. We left in a warm golden autumn, and in Khanty-Mansiysk was already minus, a lot of kilometers passed. But nothing, coped.
- You are together for almost fourteen years. How do you think you have changed a lot?
Alexei: The main thing is that the Head remained as fun and cheerful. Since we all together, we do not see any sharp changes. Although, with the advent of children, not even much changes, but all.
On Alexey: shirt, zara; jeans, bikkembergs; Shoes, Jimmy Choo on the shooter: Jumpsuit, belt, all - Villagi; Straw Hat, Audrey-Style; Bag, Coccinelle; shoes, pinko; Earrings, Gucci
Photo: Alena Poloshin; Photographer's assistant: Dina Zhilinskaya
- Do you have days when you can devote yourself only to each other?
Glafira: There are unique moments when we are in Moscow together, now we have distributed all children for a while (laughs) and enjoy freedom, we return at that time when you could calmly communicate, talk.
Alexei: Or take a walk, go to the restaurant. For several years we have been dreaming to go somewhere together, but not yet it turns out. I'm about to tour, then God forbid, work will be. But we will try to adjust the shooting days.
Glafira: I want the boys to rest, they scored forces, show them the world. This, by the way, and the financial burden, because the family is large, and time is needed for this.
Alexei: You should give them due, they in this regard are not spoiled. There are no such pleasures.
Glafira: I am convinced that children need to be devoted to their problems so that they trusted their own. Therefore, I do not consider shameful to say that I have no money now, and we cannot afford it. We tell them that if you want something, you can wait for this or earn it.
Alexei: I explain the eldest, why we can not buy something, translating this figure in equivalent to products.
Glafira: When the roots asked for an expensive toy, I said: "This is, counting, Poldivana." (Laughs.) He was surprised: "Poldivana?!". Yes, and sometimes an inexpensive sofa. You can upgrade the room, and you can buy gadgets for this money.
- None of you before was thinking about such a big family?
Glafira: It happened. We did not dream to be more familiar.
Alexei: Yes, there was no such plans. And I know people from large families who categorically do not want to have the same. It is very difficult to distribute attention and attitude to all.
- Do you know everything about each other?
Glafira: I think no. What for? There must be some freedom, personal inner world. I really like that Lesha reads a lot, I have less opportunities for this or to watch kinonovinok, but I can consult him at any time. He can ask me about the main news of the day, and I am to know his opinion about the film, which I was told at the rehearsal. We can discuss what both seen or read.
- Head, do you feel the mood of Lesha from the threshold? And do you know the trouble-free ways to quickly improve it, calm your husband?
Glafira: I feel right away, yes. (Laughs.) Sometimes it is better to climb or leave Lesha alone in the kitchen. (Laughs.)
Alexei: In fact, you need to take yourself in hand yourself. Fifteen minutes can be like this, but not the whole evening.
Glafira: I hope that when we move, it will be easier, because more space will appear. Now we have two rooms. Boys across a small apartment. And when you come with your problem, I want to burst into her somewhere. But soon we will have their own bedroom, where it will be possible to retire to do not touch you.
- Do you have loud quantities?
Alexei: I can shout, but absolutely there is no loud, we do not live in the Neapolitan quarter. They were knighted, they died around the apartment for several minutes, they were recalled. And the height is very leaving, and I can't get angry for a long time. And I generally do not know how to hurt anyone for a long time. It is hard for me to be in such a state or quarrel.
Glafira: It happens very rarely, fortunately. Children, in principle, are very frightened because of our conflicts.
Alexei: Once when the roots were quite small, I didn't shine, but something sharp broke out, and he came up, hugged me behind my feet, looked and said: "Dad, do not dare, please do not dare." And he so sincerely did that I remember for life.
- Do you have a good relationship with each other's parents?
Glafira: Yes. Now you have to communicate more with my mom, because it is actually our second nanny. Of course, she has its own character nuances, like any person, but in our family everyone goes to meet each other.
Alexei: Classic anecdotes about mother-in-law not about us. (Smiles.)
Glafira: For my and lush parents, the condition of the conflict is unnatural. I used to communicate much more with the Lesia Mom, but now it's fundamentally rarely to them, so that they talk more to the Son. I always always.
- Lesha, the heel dresses always only in his taste? And whether he matches your?
Glafira: It seems to me that it's great that Lesha does not control it. But I do not arrange provocations, I do not go to mini.
Alexei: I do not remember that I was categorically against something. She does not give rise.
Glafira: I have recently samples, I dressed defiantly and explained to him that it was necessary for the image. It was a dress with a decollete and boots.
Alexei: Moreover, the samples were with the actor, whom I also know well, and he immediately asked her: "What did you let you go from home?".
- Alexey, and in what style do you like it better?
Alexei: Honestly, I do not know, everything suits me.
- You once said that you don't even need to joke with the theme of jealousy.
Glafira: It is undesirable, even psychology says about it.
- Does any of you ever have jealousy, at least inside?
Glafira: We did not give a reason.
- It happens without reason. Around the heads are excellent partners, handsome men ...
Alexei: Everyone knows that we are husband and wife.
Glafira: I have such an armor - my husband, if that, it will not seem little, and even four behind him. Why do I need someone with such a composition? I will come on a date with all the gurb. (Laughs.)
On Alexey: Shirt, Bikkembergs; pants, 21dot12; Belt, Brioni on the shooter: dress, Isabel Garcia; Bag, Coccinelle; Earrings, asos
Photo: Alena Poloshin; Photographer's assistant: Dina Zhilinskaya
- I see that you are interested and fun with each other.
Glafira: And comfortable, I would say. We have four children, we definitely have no time to miss.
Alexei: The point is not even in this. It is clear that if we had one roots, we could afford other things - to ride more often on travel, for example. Our weekend friends go to Istanbul or Berlin, walk to concerts. On the other hand ...
Glafira: We can no longer imagine that there is no our Yermola, or proud, or Nikifora. Everyone is invalid, it is impossible to change it for some concert and even on vacation.
Alexei: Moreover, there are trips to work. When you fly to another city on shooting immediately after the performance, then again - on the performance and back, you do not understand where you are. As my teacher, Yuri Solomin told, once he came out somewhere on Perron, but did not understand what city he was and where he was going. And it covered panic.
- Do you have money in a common boiler? Who makes important decisions?
Alexei: Important solutions - common. Money is also common, no one shared on yours, mine. When she is not enough, she calls, asks to list it so much.
- Head, can you not advancing, buy expensive dress?
Glafira: Sure I can. If it is very expensive, I consult with him. But, most likely, I won't buy it myself, I will feel sorry for money. (Laughs.)
Alexei: I am always to question: "Can I buy?", I say: "Yes."
- Alexey generous, as I understand it ...
Glafira: No, Lesha is practical, but not shine. May and postpone something.
Alexei : If necessary for the family, I can. But I, however, is not a very practical person and do not really know how to consider money that in the modern world, rather than the disadvantage. I am a Soviet guy, and even herder, even though she is younger than me, not to go anywhere. No matter how you try to adapt to the modern world and new circumstances, we still remain the children of the Soviet Union. And in the USSR I do not remember that someone was not generous. All my friends were such as in childhood, and our parents with the earliest, because everyone lived poorly, but honestly. This attitude towards money was not brought up, as he was being given, on the western manner. We want our children to be decent people, the modern concept of a person-consumer is not very close to us.