Familiar situation? Your husband is just a wonderful man, but also a friend with you for a very long time, but you can't meet everything together or invite a girlfriend to visit when the husband is at home. And all because their relationship is difficult to call warm.
Do not break and make a difficult choice, we will tell you how to establish relations between opposing worlds.
Do not make a choice in favor of one
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Sit and talk
No, it is not necessary forcibly to plant them at the negotiating table. You must find out the cause of disagreements with each of them personally. It often happens that the cause of mutual dislike is simply absurd and quite easily solved by the usual analysis of the situation. It was quite possible that a misunderstanding had once a long time ago, which settled in each of them distrust to each other.
Common cause
Of course, you do not need to hope for an instant truce, however, the method in some cases really works. Is the holiday near? Conduct a party and come up with a friend and husband the overall task with which you can cope only together. But only if the relationship between your favorite people is not aggressive, otherwise there is a possibility of a holiday to threaten and finally scold with the girlfriend.
Find common interests
If your husband and girlfriend are not yet too well familiar with each other and their alphabia is only a manifestation temporary, try to organize a common leisure time, for example, if you know that the husband and girlfriend lovers of good cinema, buy three tickets to the nearest premiere. After the session, they will have a reason to chat on the topic that interests them both.
husband can be a wonderful person, but also hate your girlfriend
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Going a large company
Unfortunately, it is not always possible to establish mutual understanding, especially if dislike is too strong. What to do in this case? Neither to run secretly at meetings with a friend. Gather a big company as an option. So your girlfriend, nor a loved one will have to overpow yourself and stretch to smile to each other, just to not offend you, because there are many people around there, to whom you can switch attention and not feel embarrassed.
Do not let them set the conditions
Remember, loving and self-respecting you will never make you make a choice. This is only a way to manipulate, which never helped to establish relationships, so even if you choose in favor of this person, it will again and again set you the conditions, and one day you have to say goodbye to him.
Meet the big companies
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